pandagirl Posted May 23, 2009 Posted May 23, 2009 Met this guy online, and we finally met up last night for a drink. Physically, he is attractive, but totally not my type, but I ended up liking his personality so much that it didn't even matter! Date lasted almost 7 hours, just lots of talking and learning about each other. We went to the park at midnight and laid down in the grass and madeout and cuddled. It was cute. However, as nice as the date was, I have a couple of worries: 1) the date ended with him not walking me all the way to my apartment, and 2) there was no talk from him or indication of meeting up again. Bad signs?
dreamergrl Posted May 23, 2009 Posted May 23, 2009 Do you want someone that you only met once to know where you live anyways? I'd be more concerned about not mentioning another date if he had slept with you or something. I think 7 hours of date says he likes you.
Author pandagirl Posted May 23, 2009 Author Posted May 23, 2009 Do you want someone that you only met once to know where you live anyways? I'd be more concerned about not mentioning another date if he had slept with you or something. I think 7 hours of date says he likes you. OK, you have a point. haha. But, then again, I have been on 7 hour dates before to never hear from the guy again. I guess that what makes me question it.
dreamergrl Posted May 23, 2009 Posted May 23, 2009 OK, you have a point. haha. But, then again, I have been on 7 hour dates before to never hear from the guy again. I guess that what makes me question it. I suppose anything is possible. Did you get a hug and/or kiss goodbye?
Author pandagirl Posted May 23, 2009 Author Posted May 23, 2009 I suppose anything is possible. Did you get a hug and/or kiss goodbye? Oh yes, definitely. A lot of affection and cuteness.
dreamergrl Posted May 23, 2009 Posted May 23, 2009 Oh yes, definitely. A lot of affection and cuteness. That sounds like a positive ending to me
xpaperxcutx Posted May 23, 2009 Posted May 23, 2009 I had this happen to me once. Met the guy for dinner at 8, spent almost the entire night with him until 3 ( we went to the park) hugged alot, but I never heard from him again. Best thing to do is not to have alot of expectations.
Author pandagirl Posted May 23, 2009 Author Posted May 23, 2009 I had this happen to me once. Met the guy for dinner at 8, spent almost the entire night with him until 3 ( we went to the park) hugged alot, but I never heard from him again. Best thing to do is not to have alot of expectations. Yeah! See, this is what I mean -- you just never know. But, it was a really fun night, and no matter what, I'll take that away.
Cora Posted May 23, 2009 Posted May 23, 2009 Yeah, I agree that it could go either way. I met a guy one time and for our first date he wanted to go to a movie...no dinner before or after the movie, just a movie. I'm like how the hell are you suppose to get to know someone at a movie when you can't talk to them? It was the most awkward date ever. He gave me a hug hello, we went in watched the movie, once the movie was over he was like okay I'm parked over here bye. No hug goodbye or anything. I'm like okay well i'm not gonna hear from him again obviously. Either he did like me or wanted to see if there could be potential because he asked me out two more times. Needless to say after the third date he only wanted to be friends but I never heard from him again after that so oh well. Anyway, I guess you never can tell. You just really have to wait and see how it goes. If I had to guess, I would say he likes you. It sure seems like it at least.
Author pandagirl Posted May 24, 2009 Author Posted May 24, 2009 Well, I heard back from his this afternoon via email. It was a sweet email saying he had a real nice time, and even though he wasn't feeling well, it was "worth it," but no follow-up of wanting to see me again. Frustrating! Should I just initiate our next date?
cheerup Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 What men do and say during the date (how cute, wonderful, and promissing they were) does not indicate much about future. Men who know what to do on dates will do so to make their dates happy and/or be to be polite. They may have really meant during the dates, but that's not suggesting much about their true future intension. The only thing we can count on is how soon he tries to set up the next date. That's when we can see how interested he is in us. Unless you are so sure that you gave very obvious signs that you are not interested in seeing him again, he will ask you out again if he is interested. If you initiate the next date, he may come, but that could be it. You lose the opportunity to see his real interest in you and just wasted one more date with this guy if he is not that into you. Good luck.
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