DenshaMan Posted May 23, 2009 Posted May 23, 2009 Hi everyone, Let me explain my situation here first. I'm a 23 year old university student doing a 3 week summer semester at the moment. Coincidentally, I am sharing the same two classes with this girl that I've been falling for. I'm not usually one for life dramas, but I know this feeling in my heart is genuine and it's the kind I just can't let go of. From the first week, I could tell this girl was attracted to me. She's always trying to look my way, playing with her hair, and dressing nicely everyday now. I know we have some things in common already. She is part Japanese and I have lots of experience with Japanese language, which could help me find some common ground with her. For the first week, I just played hard-to-get, which I certainly am regretting now since the time is so short. I don't think she's shy really, but she won't initiate a conversation with me. So, yesterday I got the courage to break the ice and talk to her for the first time. It went okay, but we just sort of talked about our classes and how boring they were. I didn't even get to tell her my name, which is bad. BUT, i feel she was happy to talk with me. Here's my real dilemma. Due to it being a three week semester, we only have like 4 days left and I'm starting to feel desperate! I know if I don't do this now, I will never even see her again and it will hurt. I don't like living with regrets. In the past, people have said I'm shy, but when it comes down to things important to me, I just try to do what needs to be done. I'm very confident in myself and have no doubts about my capabilities, but I'm not sure how to do this. It's more pressure than ever before. So, I know she's attracted to me. How can I approach her again and get to the point? I need to at least get her contact information so we can continue to talk after the classes are completed. I don't want to look so desperate and awkward but I need to find a chance in this small window of opportunity. I appreciate any advice and will supply any more information you might want to know. Thanks!
Mycroft Posted May 23, 2009 Posted May 23, 2009 Ask her out! Just pick something simple and/or fun you 2 can do together outside of class and ask her if she would join you. If she says yes well you'll get her # by default. Asking for her info so you can continue to SLOWLY move this along won't get you anywhere but friend zoned.
dreamergrl Posted May 23, 2009 Posted May 23, 2009 I don't mean to rain on a parade. But, let's say you make some sort of connection with in the last few days... how do you plan on keeping the connection up? After classes are done, do you live that close?
Author DenshaMan Posted May 23, 2009 Author Posted May 23, 2009 Oh, we'll be starting yet another summer semester the following week. So, we'll still be at school.
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