Trialbyfire Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 That is a great way of saying it. A real man (not a nice guy, not a jerk) lives his life independently and does not base his happiness on whether or not he has a GF or female companionship. He should be happy and self-respecting whether he is single or drowning in females. He must also be willing to walk away from any woman for the proper reasons. Too many "nice guys" are desperate for girlfriends when they're single, and fearful of losing them when they actually get one. I'll add that the same should hold true for any self-respecting woman, though they don't suffer under the "nice" stigma. Thanks. Sure, you see "nice" girls bemoaning why men aren't attracted to them, but "nice" girls tend to blame other women, rather than men.
SoulSearch_CO Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 Who was it that said that the definition of a fool is someone who does the same thing all the time but expects different results? It was Albert Einstein and it wasn't the definition of a fool. It's the definition of insanity: “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results”
SoulSearch_CO Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 TBF, I don't get the condescending tone or the link. I wonder if I'm the only one that sees the irony in what you just said.
kizik Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 IDK, you've simply got my mind twisting in circles, trying to figure out what a jerk I am.
SoulSearch_CO Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 IDK, you've simply got my mind twisting in circles, trying to figure out what a jerk I am. LMFAO! And the irony continues.
kizik Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 Haha, you are clearly so insecure that you can't say what you mean outright, so you just quote and snark and are generally lame.
Midas Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 Hey now...this is a "nice guy" thread. Play nice. I'm gonna go fix some popcorn...anybody want some?
SoulSearch_CO Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 Haha, you are clearly so insecure that you can't say what you mean outright, so you just quote and snark and are generally lame. OMG...too funny, nice guy.
Midas Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 It was Albert Einstein and it wasn't the definition of a fool. It's the definition of insanity: “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results” Very Interesting...this quote is heard extremely often in the rooms of AA. But speaking of real men, do they really not eat quiche? I mean, what the hell is wrong with quiche?
kizik Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 I like quiche. Expect Captain Dipsh*t over here to comment on the irony of that, too.
Bejita463 Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 For all you self-professed "nice guys", maybe showing a little compassion and empathy for others, might help you understand that the world doesn't revolve around your needs. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=189547 You have to give a little, to get. Wow. That is literally horrifying. I wonder if I'm the only one that sees the irony in what you just said. Nope. I saw it.
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