hockey4life Posted May 22, 2009 Posted May 22, 2009 so my girlfriend dumped me a couple weeks ago. i cant get over her and i feel like i need 2 find a rebound or replacement girl...whatever its called lol. I used to be really good at flirting and pickin up girls but now i cant flirt or anythin at all, im really struggling here its embarrassing lol
quankanne Posted May 22, 2009 Posted May 22, 2009 don't obsess on it, that'll just make you feel worse. Go slowly about your way, picking up confidence (and making new observations) until you can be at a point where you feel like you're back in the swing of things. heck, even the 'Shack is a good place to flirt
Author hockey4life Posted May 22, 2009 Author Posted May 22, 2009 yea i just rly need a girl cuz i miss my ex so much and its just not gonna work out between us, so i need a replacement or imma just go insaneeee haha
quankanne Posted May 22, 2009 Posted May 22, 2009 look here, honey-child, I'm gonna go into Mama Mode and fuss at you like I do young women: You don't need another girl to complete you. In fact the best gift you can give yourself right now is to NOT try to get someone at your side, but instead, seize on this opportunity to get to know yourself a little better. because I guarantee, jumping right into a new relationship because you're alone is disaster in the making. "Alone" is nothing more than an opportunity, it's not some bad place to be, esp. when you have the chance to grow psychologically and emotionally. that's not to say "don't date" – just don't get so hung up on "having" a girlfriend that you don't do the relationship justice because you're not in a place emotionally to be hooked up in another meaningful relationship.
Author hockey4life Posted May 22, 2009 Author Posted May 22, 2009 no no no i dont rly want a meaningful relationship, i just wanna hav fun i dont wanna b 2 serious
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