Intricategirl Posted May 22, 2009 Posted May 22, 2009 I believe I caught my ex trying to gain access to my email account. This morning, when I logged on to check my email, it told me that my account access had been blocked, because somebody entered the wrong password too many times. And while it could be a random phishing attempt, it's not as likely as an ex who wants to take a peek at what I'm writing, especially since he knows I'm saving copies of his emails as proof of agreeing to certain things. I wrote my email place and asked them if there was a way to check the IP address of who caused it to be blocked. There almost certainly should be. In addition, I wrote my ex a simple, harmless seeming "Might be getting a new email address because of a stupid phishing attempt. Having them check IP addresses. Will let you know if I switch emails." If he didn't do it, it won't panic him. If he did do it, he just hung himself. And if his new girlfriend did it, I'll have the b*tch up on cyber harrassment charges.
Gunny376 Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 What the Hell should you care? Tell him to take his memories, his freedom, all his reasons, his space, his thoughts, his words, his freaking cat! The average person from brith to grave only has about 25,000 days to live life! Why waste one more thinking and worrying about this one? Get your happy @zz busy living or get busy dying! Quit throwing it all away!
Author Intricategirl Posted May 27, 2009 Author Posted May 27, 2009 What the Hell should you care? Because I've got agreements in there regarding alimony, child support, visitation, etc. If he wanted to go back on an agreement, all he had to do is pop into my email, erase it, and then he never agreed to pay me alimony (not exactly true, but close on some things). It's not about him spying on me and trying to find out who I'm chatting with. Who cares. It's about if he doesn't pay a certain doctor bill he agreed to, or he decides he doesn't feel like paying for my kids healthcare, I choosebetween being homeless and feeding them. Spying will just drive him crazy, and if that's what he wants to do to himself, I can't stop him. This is about more than that. And yes, I've since made copies of everything he's sent me.
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