Shak768 Posted May 22, 2009 Posted May 22, 2009 Well basically she's 17 and I'm 14. We've been talking to each other over the internet for over 2 months now, and only recently just started talking on the phone. We've been texting each other a lot and talking to each other on the phone a lot but I just don't know if she likes me or not sometimes she shows it and sometimes she just acts un-interested. I haven’t met her in person yet, even though she lives 40mins away from me. Whenever I want to meet her she just makes up some excuse that she's just busy with something else. I told her that I liked her more than a friend and her reply was "I like you more than a friend too, but your age just makes it hard". I understood what she meant, but than a few weeks later she just kept on talking about her ex and how she misses him etc. After I just couldn’t text or talk to her for a few days because I was busy, I thought she wouldn’t care but then she sends me a text like she’s missing me... So now recently on MSN we've been talking for the past few days and while I'm talking to her she’s just giving short un-interested types of reply's and just says she’s talking to her ex but keeps on coming to me for advice on what to do with him a few days later. She said she was interested in older guys but that was before I told her I liked her, more or less near the beginning of our friendship but I don’t think that’s what’s causing her to do this. She's also been on webcam with me here and there and all but I'm just so confused whether she likes me or not. I love her a lot, but I just don't know whether she just wants to be close friends or be more than that seeing as how it’s on and off with her, is she just messing with me or what?
solo_flyer Posted May 22, 2009 Posted May 22, 2009 Be glad that she is not interested in you. Depending on where you live, if you are 18 and she is 14-15 and then you get her pregnant, that is statutory rape right there. Depending on the laws, you will have to register as a sex offender for a long time and that will screw up your life and career in a massive massive way. Read these articles: http://www.cnn.com/2007/LAW/04/05/bridge.sex.offenders/index.html http://www.heraldtribune.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20060529/OPINION/605290520/1029 Three years difference is a lot for a 17 and 14 year old. Now if you are 25 and she is 22, different story. But you need someone closer to your age.
Mycroft Posted May 22, 2009 Posted May 22, 2009 Shak, I'm sorry but I don't see this going anywhere. I think people here would call you emotional tampon #278(did I use that right? lol) Meaning she uses you for ego boost and emotional support but never actually wants to reciprocate in any way. Notice the "short un-interested types of reply's" but then she wants advice about her bf. All after you told her you liked her and she said she felt the same. On top of all of that, even if she is mildly interested, she's too worried about what others think if you ended up being a couple. I actually "dated" an 18 year old when I was 14, even though she was really into me she was still worried about what others thought. At the time I didnt care but now I see it as an incredibly bad precident to start a relationship with. On top of that I was NOT mature enough for an 18 year old, though I didnt think so at the time. Hope that wasnt too harsh, I could be all wrong but thats my 2 cents.
Author Shak768 Posted May 22, 2009 Author Posted May 22, 2009 Thanks for the reply's... Yeah I think I should just stop giving her so much attention and just date chicks around my age...
hockey4life Posted May 22, 2009 Posted May 22, 2009 dude, im sry if im bein mean bout this but u gotta stay away from this internet girlfriend bs. seriously, its prob not gonna go anywhere anyways. its kinda weird, u need 2 go get sum real girls that u can see and touch(trust me ull love that part haha). Man up son, grow a pair and meet some girls in the real world.
thelostsoul89 Posted May 22, 2009 Posted May 22, 2009 Be glad that she is not interested in you. Depending on where you live, if you are 18 and she is 14-15 and then you get her pregnant, that is statutory rape right there. Depending on the laws, you will have to register as a sex offender for a long time and that will screw up your life and career in a massive massive way. Read these articles: http://www.cnn.com/2007/LAW/04/05/bridge.sex.offenders/index.html http://www.heraldtribune.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20060529/OPINION/605290520/1029 Three years difference is a lot for a 17 and 14 year old. Now if you are 25 and she is 22, different story. But you need someone closer to your age. Umm he is 14 and she is 17 lol L2read
solo_flyer Posted May 23, 2009 Posted May 23, 2009 Umm he is 14 and she is 17 lol L2read Yeah but if things continue like you wanted, then soon she will be 15 and you will be 18. You gotta be thinking ahead .
Mycroft Posted May 23, 2009 Posted May 23, 2009 Yeah but if things continue like you wanted, then soon she will be 15 and you will be 18. You gotta be thinking ahead . HE IS THE YOUNGER ONE! Not that the laws are that different about it, but society sure is.
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