northstar1 Posted May 30, 2009 Posted May 30, 2009 He just left.. he came over to visit for a few minutes... we had great sex again... but methink this is just a very strong sexual connection... I doubt it will go further.. I don't think I would want more than just sex with him... since I doubt we have anything in common except for sex... It sucks that I feel that way... That could be the problem
Author Lizzie60 Posted June 8, 2009 Author Posted June 8, 2009 I was getting kind of 'attached' to this guy.. then last Wednesday, he told me that he had been warned by the construction company that he should NOT be at the client's house to do jobs on the side. (they were checking his truck, since he is the site manager)... Then he told me that we had to stop seeing each other.. I said fine... he was sad (I was too, but didn't want to show off I was hurt a little).. anyway.. I said 'fine... whatever.. you know what's best for you'... I knew then he was feeling very bad... he said he felt like crying.. he didn't want to hurt me.. blablabla.. He left... (he was supposed to stay overnight that night)... but we both agreed it wasn't a good idea.. I was busy all weekend with my daughter's delivery...etc.. so I didn't have much time to think about him I felt sad that night only.. and that was it.. He called me this morning.. he said he would meet his boss to further talk about 'his private life'.. he said that he missed me too much.. that he has to get some kind of agreement with the company. We are planning to meet today and talk about it.. I think we're falling pretty hard for each other. not sure if it's a good thing..
xpaperxcutx Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 I was getting kind of 'attached' to this guy.. then last Wednesday, he told me that he had been warned by the construction company that he should NOT be at the client's house to do jobs on the side. (they were checking his truck, since he is the site manager)... Then he told me that we had to stop seeing each other.. I said fine... he was sad (I was too, but didn't want to show off I was hurt a little).. anyway.. I said 'fine... whatever.. you know what's best for you'... I knew then he was feeling very bad... he said he felt like crying.. he didn't want to hurt me.. blablabla.. He left... (he was supposed to stay overnight that night)... but we both agreed it wasn't a good idea.. I was busy all weekend with my daughter's delivery...etc.. so I didn't have much time to think about him I felt sad that night only.. and that was it.. He called me this morning.. he said he would meet his boss to further talk about 'his private life'.. he said that he missed me too much.. that he has to get some kind of agreement with the company. We are planning to meet today and talk about it.. I think we're falling pretty hard for each other. not sure if it's a good thing.. Lizzie, I can't see you falling for the guy. You generally tend to be the one who breaks off an affair first, so I would find it surprising if you " fall head over heels".... but I know you know what you're doing.
Author Lizzie60 Posted June 9, 2009 Author Posted June 9, 2009 Lizzie, I can't see you falling for the guy. You generally tend to be the one who breaks off an affair first, so I would find it surprising if you " fall head over heels".... but I know you know what you're doing. You're right.. I'm already over him.. (I think).. I saw him after work.. and I didn't invite him in... I was tired..and had a few things to do.. plus we had an intense 'session' yesterday. This is lust.. pure and simple lust.. If I don't see him ...I'm fine.. if I see him I want to jump his bones..
marlena Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 If I don't see him ...I'm fine.. if I see him I want to jump his bones.. Many a true love has started out this way... first in lust, then, in love...just saying. But, yes, I am sure you've got everything under control and won't let it go beyond the lust stage unless, of course, you want it to. I haven't fallen in love in five years and after that last debacle, I can most certainly understand your reluctancy to give up your freedom. Love is so complicated. Lust is much,much easier and probably more fun, too!
Author Lizzie60 Posted June 10, 2009 Author Posted June 10, 2009 Many a true love has started out this way... first in lust, then, in love...just saying. But, yes, I am sure you've got everything under control and won't let it go beyond the lust stage unless, of course, you want it to. I haven't fallen in love in five years and after that last debacle, I can most certainly understand your reluctancy to give up your freedom. Love is so complicated. Lust is much,much easier and probably more fun, too! It is.. wouldn't life be easier and much more fun if we could stay in lust forever..
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