jgaz3124 Posted May 21, 2009 Posted May 21, 2009 my boyfriend has tried to breakup with me a week ago, and I asked him if we could take a week apart and let angry feelings go for a week then see if we may try again. He agreed. I am living with him so I took some of my stuff and came back to my parents house for a week with no contact to see if we could both see us giving it another try. Well I have decided that I do love him enough to try and work things out with him. I am so nervous that he will not feel the same though and I am going to go over there and he is going to breakup with me for good. I wrote him a text message today that told him that I was looking forward to seeing him tomorrow night and that I missed him. He did write back and say "will be good to see you." So I guess that is a good sign that he at least wrote that back but then I am nervous that he was just being nice as he didn't say that he missed me also. Ok I feel better just having wrote that. Don't mind me I am just trying to write through this nervousness I am feeling. But if anyone has any comments I would love to hear them.
justletgo07 Posted May 21, 2009 Posted May 21, 2009 This might sound a tad pessimistic, but perhaps you should go ahead and assume that he is not going to feel the same way you are. Just go ahead and begin coming to terms with him not wanting to try again. That way you will already have begun to accept that reality, if in fact it is the way he feels, so if he tells you that tomorrow you will be more prepared to hear it. Maybe you could go ahead and plan what you will do if he says no, that way you'll know what you're doing regardless of what he says. Just keep telling yourself "No matter what he says, I'll be fine. My happiness is not dependant on anyone but myself." I don't know if any of this will help, but I hope it does. Good luck and stay strong. =)
Author jgaz3124 Posted May 21, 2009 Author Posted May 21, 2009 It does help to hear that and also I have begun to do that already. It will be somewhat of a relief either way tomorrow as if he does say its over then at least I know and I can start the moving on process or if he says we can give it a go again then we can start to work on the relationship, either way right now I am going nuts because I feel like I am in limbo.
Author jgaz3124 Posted May 23, 2009 Author Posted May 23, 2009 Ok so I just got back from my boyfriends house and we had a talk and decided that we will stay together but I told him that I am not moving back in with him for awhile and we both agreed that would be best, and we have decided that we will see a therapist to help us work out our communication problems. All in all I feel much relief as I really do love him and want things to work. I have been with him for two years now and we have been through alot so we both feel that this is worth working on.
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