Nuala83 Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 I made myself look desperate and needy friday night. I am determined to shed that image. I also broke NC yesterday which has made me look even more needy. The reason why he was so attracted to me in the first place was bcus of my fiesty ''I dont take mens bullsh*t'' attitude. I need to get that back. But can i? Can he forget it? Of course you can get it back! It's just gonna take a wee bit of practice and a whole lot of patience. I don't think anyone gets it right first time round. A lot of people have to resort to a significant amount of fakery after a split. To cancel out your appearance of being needy, you need to fake indifference. That's not an easy task but if you can master that and put on an act of being happy, you'll soon start to feel better and in time it will cease to become just an act. Also as a bonus, the "I'm confident and happy with myself" persona will make you very attractive to others.
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