asianmarie Posted May 21, 2009 Posted May 21, 2009 [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3]I have been dating this guy for 8 months with two teenager kids, 13 and 15. He has raised them by himself for the past 10 years. He chose not to date all those time. When they became teenager he decided to date. I am his first steady girlfriend. I have one 13 year old daughter. Even though we all get along, his girls say ugly and hateful things about me to him when I am not around. He has told them that he wants me in his life but they don’t care. They constantly complain and say hateful things. There is lot of jealousy for me because they don’t want to share him. They say they don’t want me to do anything for them or want to get to know me to him. I have never pushed myself on them. I don't tell them what to do or get into issue between them and their dad. He is so stress out on this. We broke up for 2 months so he can try to figure things out. He recently told me about their feelings. He didn't want to tell me earlier because he didn't want to hurt my feelings. We now talk and decided to take things slower. We are hoping the girls will ease up. What can we do, or I do to make the girls want to know me or at[/sIZE][/FONT]
subdued Posted May 22, 2009 Posted May 22, 2009 My younger daughter was the same way. She didn't want me to date, and no guy was good enough for me either, not until she started dating that is. I told her she couldn't date if I couldn't date. Well, her mind changed very quickly about my not being able to date when she met her boyfriend. She even forgot all about not allowing me to date.
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