Lights Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 Condolences. Hope other things in your life remain ok.
530 Guy Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 So horribly sorry for your loss, when you're ready, try to think of your time with him as a chapter in your life. You're starting a new chapter now, and only you can decide how it goes.
melissa123 Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 Hi hun I just read this whole thread and my heart aches for you You are such a beautiful couple and your wedding photos are lovely I dont think our threads have ever crossed but everyone on here thinks your such a special and wonderful person just like your husband does. I wish you all the best hun and please if there is anything I can do, do not even hesitate to ask. You are in all my thoughts Melissa
nittygritty Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 I am so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.
HsMomma Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 MM, I am so terribly sorry to hear about this tragedy in your life. I'm certain, though, that Mike is now among the angels & will be watching over you by God's side. Take comfort in knowing that you knew such a love & it will endure forever. Take care of yourself. My thoughts & prayers are with you & yours.
stefspets Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 There's not much I can add to this but I just wanted to say that I am so sorry for your loss. You are (and have been since I first saw this thread) in my thoughts.
Mimolicious Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 Oh Lord. My prayers are with you and yours. To find comfort in your heart and in the ever lasting love of our Lord Jesus Christ. May your husband rest in peace.
spookie Posted May 28, 2009 Posted May 28, 2009 Melody... this is so heartbreaking. I am so sorry for your loss.
annieo Posted May 28, 2009 Posted May 28, 2009 I'm very sad to hear the news - life can be a real b#tch sometimes. But how wonderful that you found each other at all, and that you had the time you had. In that, you are blessed. My sincerest condolences to you and your family.
TaraMaiden Posted May 28, 2009 Posted May 28, 2009 This is all so unreal, but I want to take the time to thank ALL of you so much for your thoughts and prayers. Some of you I've known here for a few years,some a few months, and some perhaps our threads never crossed, but your words of support have been there for me at 3 am, when no one else is around, and all I can do is sob. That is when you all came through for me. (love) Sometimes there is so much BS on this board, but there are times, like when we all helped a suicidal poster, or helped a woman escape her abusive family, and, of course now, that makes it all worth it. Thank you again from the bottom of my heart. The funeral is Friday and I believe I will go home with my family for the summer, can't think beyond that. Love you all, be safe... Mel, the proud wife of wonderful, special Michael. Melody, there is very little anybody can say constructively to offer any support, other than to tell you, to assure you, that we all feel dreadful for you, and would love to lift your pain. I see your signature... many people say Time heals much, also. I don't believe this to be accurate. I believe that all time can do, is to pass. All we can do, is to let it. But please know that one of the greatest healing mechanisms is self-expression, as and when it is needed. Whenever you need to, if you find no comfort anywhere else, please - always come back to us. As you rightly point out, much goes on in these forums that is BS: trivial, superficial, petty and irrelevant. However, I know from experience that when push comes to shove, friends on here rally round, and can be the most wonderful, precious and kindest network of people you could ever wish to have. Stay with us, melody. Because we promise you, we're with you on this. With much Metta anmd Karuna. Namaste. _/l\_ TM. X
Taramere Posted May 28, 2009 Posted May 28, 2009 I'm so shocked and sorry to read this thread. ((((MM)))
00Nina00 Posted May 28, 2009 Posted May 28, 2009 I'm new to this forum but I came across this topic and I've got to say that I'm really really sorry. Best of luck in these tough times.
Alma Mobley Posted May 28, 2009 Posted May 28, 2009 Gosh, I am so sorry, Melody. He did indeed have a short life, but in the end he had you. You loved each other so much. That is what's important. I am so very sorry for your loss. I don't have many words beyond that.
Chinook Posted May 28, 2009 Posted May 28, 2009 Mel, you've given me a lot of your time in the past, answering questions and giving advice. You've offered insight and lumination in times of uncertainty and pain to a lot of people on this board. Now it's your turn. Come when you need to. I'm very sorry for your loss. I wish it was so different. Please take care of yourself.
imani Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 Poor honey. I don't know you , Mel, but my heart and prayers go out to you. This is so very horrible and sad. I hate that you are going through this, but just please try to hang in there. (((Mel)))
TabulaRasa Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 I don't post often, and I don't know you other than reading your posts, but I am so sorry for your loss. Take care.
ahah2322 Posted May 30, 2009 Posted May 30, 2009 i am so sorry for your loss. i wish you strength in this ordeal.
joybean72 Posted May 30, 2009 Posted May 30, 2009 (I too just found this thread.) Wow, my heart is breaking for you & your family. I am so sorry about your tragic loss Mel. Stay strong, we are here for you. (((((((((((((((((Hug)))))))))))))))))))
whichwayisup Posted May 31, 2009 Posted May 31, 2009 MM, thinking of you - When you're up for it, do an update.. Hugs.
SoulSearch_CO Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 I think of you every time I get on this board. My thoughts are still with you and your family.
OpenBook Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Same here, Melodymatters... you're still in my thoughts and prayers.
becauseofyou Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 I'm so sorry for your loss melody. You are in my thoughts.
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