Ms. Red Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 You don't know me Mel because I mainly just read & rarely post on LS. But, I've been praying for you & have you in my thoughts. I even logged in at work today to see if you posted an update. Not hearing from you in over 24 hours is making me nervous. I hope all is ok. I wish you & your hunny well. =^-^=
sb129 Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 MM--- (((((hugs))))) Sorry for the belated post, I missed this thread. My thoughts are with you.
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 You're in my prayers and we're all here for you, no matter what. Keep hoping and praying for the best. xoxo
anne1707 Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Mel I hope you're holding it together. Remember there is support here if you need it. Hoping for good news soon.
Citizen Erased Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Oh Melody, I'm praying for good news soon. The waiting must be tearing you up. We're here for you sweetie.
Alma Mobley Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Melody, Ohhh, I am so, so sorry. You are in my heart, and I can't imagine what you are going through. You have always been a model of a good relationship to me, as I am also in an older woman/younger man relationship. I know I didn't say it, but I did read the progress of your relationship, and it sounded so wonderful and gave me hope. You touched me with your posts. I hope he comes back safe. Please keep LS updated. I am hoping for the best! You are in my thoughts! Alma
Author melodymatters Posted May 24, 2009 Author Posted May 24, 2009 It is Sunday morning. No news, We did put out flyers, the police seem to really be taking this seriously now. The roads have been checked, they've supoenaed my phone records ( he had my cell, and though it's my acct, they won't tell me jack) He left his wallet at home so had no access to ID, or bank cards, though I checked and no activity. The neighbor is a selfish a**, but he had no motive to hurt him. he said the owner said he walked off, and he assumed he got a cab. The neighbor got home at 6AM in a cab and I was there to meet him. ( actually i just assumed Mike would be getting out of the cab and I was PISSED), but when it was just the neighbor I ran out to meet him. Thats when the fear started. The bar tapes show mike walking off alone at 3:15 am. I didn't know your stomach could clench into a tight painful knot and stay that way for days. I soak bread in green tea so I have something to survive on. The mother is being supportive, the dad brought a sister and aunt here unannounced yesterday morning and they got all jerry springer on me " You killed my brother" " "do you have a boyfriend in clearwater ?' I was so upset I just answered they're questions shaking like a leaf, but then got angry and told his mom to tell the dad that only he was allowed to contact me from here on in. I have panic disorder so even at good times I get anxiety attacks. This a never ending one. Thank you all for caring and checking this thread and praying. The ravines by the bar lead into the river, the river feeds into the atlantic ocean. They may never find him.
Kamille Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Oh Melody! I'm in tears. I will keep praying, for his safe return and so that you can continue to find strenght. K
oasis Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 My heart goes out to you. I hope and pray that your husband is only suffering from a case of temporary amnesia and will be alright in the end. Keep strong and keep hope alive!
Lyssa Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Oh Mel... I'm sorry they went on Jerry Springer act on you! Totally uncalled for - I know they are worried as well but mann you don't deserve that.. not right now. I'm with Kamille - I can't help it but I am in tears as well. It has been days and yet no news from Mike... all I can offer is my prayers, Mel. Hang in there. Please get something to eat... [[[[[MM]]]]]
blind_otter Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 I'm so sorry you're going through this hon....prayers for you and yours. Don't worry about his family, people do crazy things when they are worried. Much love....
Adunaphel Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 I just read this thread, I am sorry for what you are going trough,I really hope you will get good news about your H soon.
whichwayisup Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 I'm sure what was said, was said out of anger and not knowing, fear etc..Though that doesn't make it right. Still is sh.itty to hear. And you know NONE of this is your fault so don't even go there.. As for the anxiety, do the deep breathing and even some yoga, that will help relax you and hopefully calm down the panic abit. Rescue remedy (natural herb) could also help your nerves.. Glad to hear the police are now heavily involved. Did you talk to a TV station yet about putting this out on the airwaves?
amaysngrace Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Dear Melody...thinking of you and Mike and wishing for good news soon.
Jilly Bean Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Hey, Mel. Just checking in for an update. Stay as positive as you can. There is still a very good chance he will show up. - JB
White Flower Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Sweetie, hang in there. Are you taking meds for the anxiety? Sometimes when we're stressed out we forget to take them. I'm keeping my thoughts and prayers with you and your H today and until we hear more. Big hugs, WF.
IfWishesWereHorses Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 I'm so sorry that his family is being so insensitive. Please hang in there. My family and I are still praying for good news.
Author melodymatters Posted May 24, 2009 Author Posted May 24, 2009 can't talk more but got the call, they found him. We had to go in, autopsy tomorrow, then they will release him. No signs of foul play, probably a seizure and then drowning. He is/was so good. This is heartbreaking beyond belief. Thanks for your good thoughts and prayers, my mom is coming down tomorrow. Melody matters/Mrs Dies. (Forshadowing last name I suppose)
IfWishesWereHorses Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 I am so so very sorry for you Mel. I know you have wonderful memories. For every tear that you shed, there's a prayer in my heart for you. Wishing you strength and peace. IWWH
2sunny Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Mel big hugs ((((((MM)))))) i'm so sorry! my heart is heavy for you right now.
Kamille Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 oh Melody! ((melodymatters)) He would want you to honor his love for you, to keep being the beautiful person he saw in you. It is so unfair though. I'm crying. I wish I could come down and be there for you. I'm here for you on-line, If there is anything I can do, please let me know!
sb129 Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Oh no, I am so so so sorry Melody. How awful. You will be in shock for a while- I am thinking of you and sending much love. Am glad your mum is going to be with you- you are going to need all the support you can get. Please try to take care of yourself as best you can, try to eat, try to sleep (get help for that if you need to). Thinking of you.
oasis Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Your worst nightmare has come true. So sorry for your loss.
Art_Critic Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Oh MM.. I'm so sorry... ****Hugz**** Lean on us here if you need us....
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