1 week NC

[wow123]

I have not been in contact with her for a week now. Although I am starting to feel slightly better I still can't seem to let go. I have the "she'll come back" syndrome" even though she said she doesn't see us getting back together. I just can't seem to fully let go I am still in love with her. How do you just let go of someone you are so in love with?

[brock9911]

i know this is no consolation to the feelings that your feeling in anyway, but id rather be in a relationship for 6 months than my 8 years. think about it for a sec. if its been 6 months than you still can go back out there and find someone new. your still fresh, 6 months cant take you far off your game. also the early goings in a relationship tend to be the honeymoon stages, thats y you feel so strongly. if you get out there and explore you can find someone who will appreciate you as much as you appreciate them. it sux but time and friends are the best healers. live your life and keep your mind open. be adventurous who knows where it will land you.

[bluewolf17]

Hi Wow,

 

I am on 7 days of NC as well .

 

Take comfort in knowing other people are going through this too. Just hang in there. NC is the way to go. Trust me on that.

[Tackle]

Stick to NC! I felt the same as you when I was in my first week. I am in week 4 now and things are getting much better! You'll notice your starting to get over her by the small things, like getting your appetite back. Last week I've been eating like a pig, afterhaving lost 4 kilos in 3 weeks.

 

Hang on, everything will get better

[trueblue72ny]

the only thing you can do is hang in there and slowly go thru it. it takes time. that is the hard part.

[wow123]

Thanks everyone. I'm having a really tough time with this. I'm gonna go away with my buddies for the long weekend hopefully that will help.