entityzero Posted May 21, 2009 Posted May 21, 2009 Can you ever trust someone who cheated on their ex-boyfriend to be with you, not to do the same thing back to you? Is that pretty much a dead give-away at the start of the relationship that this person is trouble?
Tony T Posted May 21, 2009 Posted May 21, 2009 Can you ever trust someone who cheated on their ex-boyfriend to be with you, not to do the same thing back to you? Is that pretty much a dead give-away at the start of the relationship that this person is trouble? Not necessarily. People are way more complex than that. Someone may cheat on one person but not another. People may be nice to one person but not another. People may murder one person but not another. Go figure! As a practical matter I personally wouldn't date someone I knew hate the capacity to cheat. I wouldn't take my chances. Since cheating is a sin of opportunity, almost anybody can cheat given the right circumstances NO MATTER how good their marriage or relationship happens to be. Examples upon request.
Nikki Sahagin Posted May 21, 2009 Posted May 21, 2009 No, I don't believe that history always repeats itself. Some people can cheat on one person 100 times in one relationship, and never even consider it in another relationship. Then you have to consider what constitutes as cheating; sex, a kiss, a dance, a meaningful conversation with a member of the opposite sex, a hug that lingers too long - many of us have either intentionally or accidentally 'crossed' the line of what it means to cheat, either in our own eyes or those of our partner.
trueblue72ny Posted May 22, 2009 Posted May 22, 2009 its just like rolling the dice. you never know...
darksky Posted May 22, 2009 Posted May 22, 2009 Can you ever trust someone who cheated on their ex-boyfriend to be with you, not to do the same thing back to you? Is that pretty much a dead give-away at the start of the relationship that this person is trouble? Good Question.. One of my ex's cheated on her bf to be with me and then she cheated on me to be with someone else. Another one of my ex's has never cheated on her ex's but cheated on me. Point is its hard to tell, but in my opinion it should be taken as a huge warning that the person is capable of cheating. But I wouldn't let this stop you from getting yourself involved with this person "To love and win is the best thing. To love and lose, the next best"
Soul Bear Posted May 22, 2009 Posted May 22, 2009 My ex-ex cheated on me. 5.5 years later, and she has been in a relationship with some other guy, and now that im broken up with my current ex, she is sending me, i miss you and i care about you messages. I dont think they can be trusted. Its nice to hear that im missed, but i know if we were in the same room drunk she would do the business again with no quams until the day after.
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