bobbeepin Posted May 20, 2009 Posted May 20, 2009 My boyfriend doesn't like making out with me, and says i'm a sloppy kisser. We've been together for almost 2 years and though he's never been all that into kissing, he still did it especially during sex, but recently it seems as if he can't stand it. Which makes me feel so unsexy and insecure. Noone has ever told me that before, in fact I've been told by plenty of guys before my b/f that i'm a great kisser. I don't understand. Also, he's bad at making me feel sexy. I'm an attractive, young 21 year old and I get hit on at work all day. How do I make him want me more? We do have a great relationship, we do a lot together and hardly ever fight and we see eachother every single day, so I know it has nothing to do with another girl. It just seems that we've really been lacking intimatly and it really sucks.
paddington bear Posted May 20, 2009 Posted May 20, 2009 Well, I have to agree, it's not you, it's him. Sounds like he's dissatisfied about something, but maybe can't put it into words, or isn't even conscious about what it is, so it's coming out as 'you're a sloppy kisser'. Next time why not try to say 'ok, then, teach me how you like to be kissed' and make it fun. But I don't think the issue here is your kissing technique, it's something to do with him. Maybe be direct and tell him you've noticed the lack of intimacy lately and what's the reason for it.
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