wow123 Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 Girlfriend who said she was in love with me dumped me. Reason was I called and asked to hangout too often, something she started from the beginning. After 6 months she says she felt smothered asked for a break still calling me everyday for 2 weeks saying "I love you", then dumped me. Even after saying it was over still called me daily. I treated her like gold, never lied, never cheated. Did everything I could to make her happy. I just don't understand. She moved on right away and I am a mess! Did she just think she was in love and never really was? Doesnt make sense to let go of someone you love for these reasons. NC for a week now still a mess...
bluewolf17 Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 Wow, I am really sorry your hurting. Maybe it was best that it was 6 months, and not 6 years? Here on this forum, we are all asked a lot of what if questions. We are asked to explain the emotions and actions of total strangers. I don't know if she ever really loved you. I would fathom that she did, but maybe not as deeply as you loved her-and this is why she was able to end the relationship, and walk away to someone else so quicklly. That's not easy to hear, I know. One thing I have learned is that often two people are "together" but in completly different relationships. One may be more serious, or in love than the other, and sometimes its a cat and mouse game. I am sure she did care for you, and you loved, and it sounds like maybe its for the best that its over. Sounds like you were really good to her, and she still didn't want to work it out. If I were you, I would stick with NC, heal, and move on. You should have no problem finding another girl who you will love, and most importantly, with Love you back just at strong. Good Luck, Bluewolf17
Author wow123 Posted May 19, 2009 Author Posted May 19, 2009 When I am in love I am willing to work on anything unless someone cheats or begins lying...how are others ready to so easily walk away from a situation that can easily be fixed when they claim to be in love?
webmuse Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 Cuz love isn't always enough Cuz people "love" differently..
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