singlelife Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 Me and my new girl click on every level!! We are in love and the sex is hot and we both communicate to each other soo fn well. We argue then make up instantly then go have fun. Well I have been seperated for two years and have contacted the ex to get the divorce. For some reason it just never happened even though we both dated other people. Well I am completely happy with my girl and just wanted to be nice to the ex so there would be the last good talk and lets sign the no contested papers. Well my ex tells me she is sorry for her part and offered to take me for a beer. I was like this is weird but I didn't read to much into it. I just thought it was small talk. Well then she contacted me again to tell me she isn't dating anyone ( I told her she should an she should do what she wants). She then told me she is slowing way down . She hadn't gotten the papers yet and asked why I didn't call her. I told her I didn't expect to talk again except for to say got the papers it's final blah blah blah, have a nice life. No hard feelings. She said that she wanted us to be cool and we had a decent conversation for about an hour. That never happened in years. Well anywy I told my girl becuase I am not hiding anything. She wasn't mad and laughed and said that my ex wants to screw me. She said she doesn't want me back but she definetly wants omething from me. Why keep n touch after all this time. After it's final there is no reason to hang with her. My best friend says the same thing that my ex wants to have a few good screws because our sex was amazing and with no strings she would want to be bed buds. I don't want to and I told them both no way. But I don't see her wanting this . Maybe I am stupid. Can you guys give me your opinion on what you see.
trueblue72ny Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 sounds like your ex is lonely and wants some attention, she see's you are happy and maybe she is jealous. or having second thoughts about everything. too bad its too late for her!!
shopgirl7907 Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 Your ex wants what she can't have! I don't know your back story, whether you were the dumper or dumpee. If though, you were the dumpee and hd wnted her back for awhile I cn see this s being a power issue. Of course, it is possible that she relized she wants to be with you and that's fine but it sounds like you are doing well with your current gf. Why mess up a for sure thing for a possibility (one that didn't work before)? I really think that your ex see the finality in all of this nd wnts to see if she can wedge herslef back in, if not to get you bck, t least to ruin your new thing. Tell her you're flattered and wish she could have figured this out sooner but right now, it is too late bc you are happy and the best thing that she can do is sign the divorce papers.
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