hai Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 Alright, my girlfriend just broke up with me, her reason being "I just wanna be friends for right now." This really has me bummed =(. She constantly texts me, and calls me everyday, wanting to talk, but she's made it clear, that she just wants to be friends.... It's driving me insane, I can't get over her, because she keeps calling, but I can't tell her to stop, because I think to myself "what if she's willing to take me back someday, I can't push her away"... =( I need some advice on how to get over her....
boogieboy Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 Nah, once a girl says she wants to be friends, she lost her attraction to you. Your best bet is to cut her off completely for at least a few months. She has to miss you and have no choice but to miss you. Not only that you cant let her use you as her emotional cushion like that when she devastated you. The only way to possibly get her back is to cut her off for a few months and let her see a new man when you do reconnect. But it will never work when you keep in constant contact with her. Read more threads on this board, it will make more sense. But tell her you cannot be friends with someone you were in love with, it doesnt work that way, and cut her off. You also need the time off to heal from the breakup. Healing wiillonly work when you have no contact with her whatsoever.
CaliGuy Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 Do the right thing and don't talk to her. Go FULL FORCE NO CONTACT. She made this choice, let her wallow in it. If this is what she really wants, she'll get the hint soon enough and leave you alone. If not she'll tell you she made a mistake. Either way, by using NC you allow yourself to heal and move on.
trueblue72ny Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 nothing more to add to what has already been said. i am in agreement. cut her off!!!!!!!!! you are making it easy FOR HER to get over you! she is stepping over you and leaving you in the rut!
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