wow123 Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 Why do girls act so cold and nasty when they decide to break up with you? It's amazing that someone who once loved you could treat you so poorly...
alphamale Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 Why do girls act so cold and nasty when they decide to break up with you? It's amazing that someone who once loved you could treat you so poorly... personally i've usually done the breaking up but the few women who broke up with me were quite civil about it. never really had any problems
burning 4 revenge Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 Well those feelings of passion and excitement are probably now being focused on someone else So shes probably still in love, just not with you anymore All you do is get in the way. Better if you didnt exist Thats how it works
Sibyl Vane Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 Well those feelings of passion and excitement are probably now being focused on someone else So shes probably still in love, just not with you anymore All you do is get in the way. Better if you didnt exist Thats how it works Yep, that's pretty much it.
thewingwoman Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 The few times I have been a "cold bitch" it's because I had to be. Not because I didn't care about the person, but if we broke up, there was always a good reason for it. Usually the guys I was with understood that, and many of us were able to be friends after a while. But when I was a cold bitch, it was to get my point across that we could not be together, and the guy for whatever reason couldn't comprehend that. I usually try to just be straight up, but when he doesn't get it, I had to be cold.
Trialbyfire Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 Why do girls act so cold and nasty when they decide to break up with you? It's amazing that someone who once loved you could treat you so poorly...Whenever I've dumped someone, I'm rarely cold and nasty. It also depends on how the other party reacts to it. If they're nasty, I can be too.
boogieboy Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 Why do girls act so cold and nasty when they decide to break up with you? It's amazing that someone who once loved you could treat you so poorly... i say youre better off with the cold treatment, because then the girl doesnt try to do the bullshyte lets be friends treatment and prolong your suffering. Youre one of the lucky ones sir! count your blessings, you will be healing faster than many of the people here. Leave her be.
burning 4 revenge Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 i say youre better off with the cold treatment, because then the girl doesnt try to do the bullshyte lets be friends treatment and prolong your suffering. Youre one of the lucky ones sir! count your blessings, you will be healing faster than many of the people here. Leave her be. its so condescending im not talking about if youve been dating a girl a little while and your feelings were much more hot and she gives you the pink slip i think its cool to be friends after that but if there was an involved relationship with a lot of passionate emotions expressed on both ends and then you get friendzoned after months or years.....thats the biggest insult..
trustydusty Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 burning 4 revenge, i totally agree, when there are tons of passionate emotions, even just days before the break up, the cold treatment does feel like a slap in the face...
seductress989 Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 I have been cold when dumping guys which I always seem to do but never nasty. Just like wingwoman said, you have to be cold to get your point across. Otherwise, if you remain "friends" (no benefits!) with the guy, they still think they have a chance with you and that is a lie. I am not about to lead someone on, I would rather give them the freedom to find someone else when our relationship is truly over. NC is the way to go, dumper or dumpee...
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