theinvisiblewoman Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 I live with my partner and 3 year old, I'm not happy and can't seem to sort out our problems no matter what i say to him or how upset I get. Our main issues are that he makes no effort to treat me like a woman at all, we don't go out together unless it's for a friends wedding or I arrange something and when I approach him about this he shouts at me that I am not living in the reasl world and should realise how hard it is with a 3 year old and no family to help out. We have friends that are more than willing to help and babysit so that we can spend time together but unless its for him to go play football, or watch a sport in the bar, he doesn't even ask. Other problem is that he always resorts to name calling in an argument and always acts in an aggressive manner towards me, even the simplist of questions will be met by an angry look, overreaction and being barked at by him to the point of me having to really think abut how I word things before I speak. Surely this is wrong? I'm really unhappy and can't even tell him because I know he won't listen to me and I'll end up sat in the house alone, crying and feeling even worse than I do now.
Datura Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 So what's the point of sticking around when you're miserable and you can't even talk to your partner?
hopesndreams Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 can't even tell him because I know he won't listen to me Then expect many more years of his bad treatment toward you. Has he always been so angry?
Author theinvisiblewoman Posted May 22, 2009 Author Posted May 22, 2009 I really do not know why he is so angry, he has a good job, loves his child and says he loves me buts his actions say otherwise.
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