Half-Moon Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 I've seen this girl many times downstairs at my residential clubhouse. She works there as a concierge. At first she looked quite evil with sharp facial contours, like a witch, but she always looks at me. Her looks make me uncomfortable at times. Anyways, she seems quite attractive now and I want to know her better. But it's hard to talk with her because she works there and I'm sorta like a customer. I think it's kinda weird. Any suggestions on how I can initiate conversation with her? I usually workout at the clubhouse gym or occasionally surf the web.
prettybaby Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 You know, it's interesting that basically you're asking us how you could approach your concierge and get to know her better .... yet you put a whole lot of emphasis on how evil and witchy she looks How are her facial features even relevant to your question? I'm confused. That being said, I don't see why it would be an issue to talk to your concierge. It's not like a doctor with his patient; there are absolutely no rules as far as concierges are concerned. Just say "hi, how are you?" and go from there.
Author Half-Moon Posted May 18, 2009 Author Posted May 18, 2009 I'm not the talkative type and going up to her to say hi while she's working is uncomfortable for me.
prettybaby Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Ok. Then what else do you suggest? I didn't even say you should ask her out for coffee or anything that would take some guts; I started off with the most casual and most pressure-free scenario: "Hi, how are you today?" Five little words, man. Five little words that millions of people say to each other every day around the world. If you wanna get to know her, you're gonna have to talk to her at some point
SoulSearch_CO Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Or you could go the Rico Suave route: "Hey, I was wondering if you could recommend a good restaurant." If she asks why, or gives you a few suggestions - pick a place, then say, "I'd love to take you to dinner." It's so cheesy, it just might work. Heck, I'd be flattered even if I hadn't necessarily considered dating the guy before that moment.
BeautifulMan Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Tell her its her job to make you happy and you request a date.
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