DJMarky Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 [EDIT] I know this is progress so the title is rhetorical Just felt like sharing. Ok, before I start here is a summary of my relationship for those that don't know. My ex cheated on her last ex ex with me, then cheated on me with another guy. She also refused to tell her ex about me. She was seeing him all the time and he was taking her out to dinner, the movies etc. She even denied seeing me when he asked. When I complained she asked for space, which meant spending time with another guy (not her ex - different dude) in the hotel room I had booked. I broke up with her, she wanted to get back together, apologised and said she would tell her ex. Start sleeping with the other dude from hotel room behind my back. Found out what she was doing and broke up with her again. Then she denied dating me to my brother's friends for some unknown reason, even though I introduced her to them numerous times as my girlfriend. After all this she tried to get back with me later saying the other guy meant nothing to her, she was bored of him, hadn't slept with him etc then when I denied her she rubbed in my face the amount of times she cheated on me with him. So yeh, not a great catch. Ok, so I have been seeing her a bit recently, as in seeing her driving round with her new boyfriend she was cheating on me with etc. I am still doing NC and haven't talked to her in ages. I actually had to tell her to stop contacting me cause she was constantly ringing and saying **** (eg. "I can't stop thinking about you.") to mess with my head. Anyways, my mate rang me tonight and wanted me to meet him and another mate for dinner where all the uni students go, which is right near my house. He had been working on an assignment all day and wanted to get some food. Guess who was there? Her with her boyfriend. I saw her first, said 'Hey, what's up?' as I walked past, she looked up and said 'Hey, how are you?', I said 'good' with a smile and kept walking. My heart was racing a bit, but not much, I was still able to eat food with friends and act as if it never happened. I really think this is a huge breakthrough for me, I didn't expect to react like I did. I am pretty sure I went the best way about doing it. Obviously I am not completely over her if I felt the need to even mention it here, but right now I just feel like, wow i couldn't care less. They are probably back at his house ****ing each others brains out, but I really do not care. Haha, wow. Anyways I am rambling! Thanks for reading.
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