Girlygirl1977 Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 I first dated my bf when I was 23 for 2.5 yrs. I'm now 32 and he's 34. We ended after a period of long distance. We dated over the last six weeks. I have been very guarded cautious while he was in 100%. I didn't realize he had found me so cold that he questioned that I liked him. He came with me to London/Paris and had high expectations and saw that same person. He came to tell me last week and I feel awful. I have given him 100% of myself since. I even took Wed off to go to Philly (he moved to Philly soon after we got together and I'm 1.5 hours away in NY). He came to NY on Friday evening for my bday dinner and left Saturday. In between we have been communicating on long calls. He says he still loves me and he doesn't want to be finished yet, but he wants a break as the best chance of success for us is to regroup. He is now thinking of our personalities are good together. FYI - for the rules - it is if you have something to say, say it. and also no dating other people. We have set a date of June 15th to convene no matter what. It is out of sincerity. I'm going to give him space now b/c our long calls are too much. If you were a man like him (dreamer), could you come back to me again?
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