Peace2 Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 I am so unhappy in my marriage. I dislike my husband so much it's dificult to even look at him. He has spent the past ten years passed out drunk on the sofa while I try to sleep through his inconspicuous scramblings to the garage for more booze. During the daytime he sleeps till mid afternoon and musters up enough energy to go to our office long enough to control all of our money and sneak to the abc store for more liquer. He is cocky and rude to everyone, including to me and my kids. My daughter is grown but never comes around because of him. My son stays mostly with his dad because he can't stand to be around my husband. I feel like my life is complete chaos with him. I just want to find peace. I know I will never have peace with him but I don't know how to break away. I am so entangled with him with business, personal properties etc....No kids together, Thank God! I just don't know where to begin. Any Advice?
Gunny376 Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 It will take time, but you 'un-weave" it the same way you 'weaved it" together, one thread at a time. I'm not into knitting and crocheting, but my beloved materinal GM :love: was, and I watched her as child, a teenager, and when she would make a misake half way into it, she would un-do it and start all over again. Same deal here. Later? Its was the same as walking out of a mine field in the Marines? Take it slow, be careful and follow the footprints you already left behind. Strange as it may be? When I found myself in that situation? I was thinking of Granny Williams and her knitting and crocheting? Lesson learned? Pay attention to the smallest of details!
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