Author MeMyself&I Posted May 20, 2009 Author Posted May 20, 2009 You are so right and I hate it. All this 'hanging out' really is, is just leaving the back door open. It's like "well, we'll hang out but if something better comes along in the meantime then thats fine because we're only hanging out". To me, it's a cop out. I want to be asked out, I want to have a good date, know at the end of the night if we're going to see eachother again and if we are, not 'hang out' with others in the meantime. Well, not sexually anyway. To me its like permanent window shopping and being to afraid to make a real purchase. I simply hate it, but then as I said in a previous post on this thread, I'm 43 and all of this is new to me. Trust me, it was so much easier in my day. It is confusing. I'm trying to ask my friends what they think but they are all in their 30's like me so they don't get it and say "if he's not taking you out on a date then you are a Booty call". Ugh! Not sure where to go from here. I think I'll try to date people in my own generation although it seems to be rubbing off on them too.
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