ruggy Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 So I saw this lady on Match. E-mailed her and said she had an interesting profile and attractive pics. Asked her to look at my profile and if there was any interest to hit me back. So she hit me back and said I had a nice profile too. So also asked how my weekend was. I replied back and said it was good. Asked her about her weekend if she the game on Friday (you know, keeping it low key and stress free. Her profile said she really liked sports). So, did I screw up the reply? She read the e-mail a while ago, no response. The first e-mail was replied surprisingly in a few hours or so.
Art_Critic Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 No humor .... Did your email sound like you are fun to be around ? Women want to go out with guys that can show them a good time and a good time isn't going to dinner with someone who is just blah with the conversation and fun.. Step it up a notch.. show them why they should date you thru your words.. use your humor and maybe some really kick ass stuff you did this weekend to show them if they went out you they would have a blast with you.. If you don't then you are considered a dud...and a dud doesn't get reply's back from their emails
alphamale Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Did your email sound like you are fun to be around ? how exaclty does one come of as being "fun to be around" in one email? you're forgetting that online dating fails because everyone seems the same, except for their pics of course (which could be faked or out-dated) for example AC, if you forgot everyting you know about me and i sent you one 4 sentence email how the **** are you going to differentiate me from everyone else?
Art_Critic Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 how exaclty does one come of as being "fun to be around" in one email? you're forgetting that online dating fails because everyone seems the same, except for their pics of course (which could be faked or out-dated) I'm not forgetting anything Alpha.. I met my wife on match.. By the way.. he had 2 emails not one to make and impression of fun to be around... I'm not really sure how to word exactly what you want.. being that I'm not privy to all the info from her profile and pictures.. A lot of times I would take something from a profile or pictures and make a pun about it in my email to them.. I would also keep the conversation upbeat and not dwell on me but ask questions about them... One thing I stayed away from was telling a woman I liked her pictures.. that tells them a picture is all it took and chances are they didn't read the profile.. which isn't what women want.. they want you to read the profile..
alphamale Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 .. they want you to read the profile.. all the profiles read the same
D-Lish Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Don't let online dating get you bent out of shape! Don't take it personally. You have no way of knowing what is going at the other end. Maybe she's started seeing someone, maybe she's not used to getting mail and was just being polite- maybe she's a flake! You couldn't have possibly screwed up by saying what you said. Sometimes I'll set mail aside and wait until I have time to write back. It's hard to say. Stop over thinking it and send out more mail to others!
Art_Critic Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 for example AC, if you forgot everyting you know about me and i sent you one 4 sentence email how the **** are you going to differentiate me from everyone else? One thing is for sure Alpha.. if your email of 4 sentences looks exactly like all the others in my inbox they you get forgotten.. You can't differ yourself by saying you liked their pictures.. they got told that by all the slim that have tried to bed them online.
alphamale Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Don't let online dating get you bent out of shape! Don't take it personally. You have no way of knowing what is going at the other end. Maybe she's started seeing someone, maybe she's not used to getting mail and was just being polite- maybe she's a flake! maybe online dating is just a total waste of time for 99% of people
Art_Critic Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Don't let online dating get you bent out of shape! Don't take it personally. That's good advice.. also Thick Skin helps... you never know what is going on in someones life.
Art_Critic Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 all the profiles read the same They do if all you do is look at the pictures....All you see is the same type of chick that you dig or are looking for.. blond, big tits, nice figure...etc. etc... My wifes profile didn't read like anyone else's.. it stuck out and the way she wrote it allowed me to write a really funny, nice first email...
alphamale Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 also Thick Skin helps... you never know what is going on in someones life. dude, relatively speaking you don't need a thick skin for online dating....you need a thick skin for real world dating
burning 4 revenge Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Her picture was no good?I usually dont get past looking at the pictures I intend to send an email, but when i get done masturbating to their pictures ive lost all interest
Art_Critic Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 I usually dont get past looking at the pictures I intend to send an email, but when i get done masturbating to their pictures ive lost all interest ... You really should send that email and at the very least thank them for the release.
alphamale Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 I usually dont get past looking at the pictures I intend to send an email, but when i get done masturbating to their pictures ive lost all interest and then you wonder why you're home on sat nites watching reruns of Lost
Land Shark Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 I'm a bit more mature than that. I check out their pictures, of course. I'm not dead. But I pleasure myself to their written profiles. So hot.
burning 4 revenge Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 I'm a bit more mature than that. I check out their pictures, of course. I'm not dead. But I pleasure myself to their written profiles. So hot. Ive tried that, but more often than not their words deflate my tire
Sibyl Vane Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 I usually dont get past looking at the pictures I intend to send an email, but when i get done masturbating to their pictures ive lost all interest I'm a bit more mature than that. I check out their pictures, of course. I'm not dead. But I pleasure myself to their written profiles. So hot. The scary thing is I don't think either of you are joking.
Author ruggy Posted May 18, 2009 Author Posted May 18, 2009 Anyways. She asked me how my weekend was, so I thought it would be only right to ask about hers. I am not going to go into crazy detail on a first reply e-mail. Not sure if this online dating think is what some people think it is.
burning 4 revenge Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 The scary thing is I don't think either of you are joking. If you only knew what Ive done on FB
alphamale Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 I'm a bit more mature than that. I check out their pictures, of course. I'm not dead. But I pleasure myself to their written profiles. So hot. i'm eatin' honey bunches of oats w/ milk right now
burning 4 revenge Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 i'm eatin' honey bunches of oats w/ milk right nowI wonder what a girl would say if you sent that out as your initial email Im eating honey bunches of oats and I have a disfigured ear
Art_Critic Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 I wonder what a girl would say if you sent that out as your initial email He might get that reply he was looking for.... that would separate him from the other 100 emails that she got..
JeezLouise Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 I wonder what a girl would say if you sent that out as your initial email Im eating honey bunches of oats and I have a disfigured ear OMG I just scared the cat off the bed laughing.
JeezLouise Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Anyways. She asked me how my weekend was, so I thought it would be only right to ask about hers. I am not going to go into crazy detail on a first reply e-mail. Not sure if this online dating think is what some people think it is. Ruggy. chill Let's play the scenario game. She read your mail, and before she could click reply..... 1. Her mom called, and after a 30 minute conversation, she had to go cook dinner. 2. Her boss walked in. 3. Her cat vomited up a hairball under the desk. 4. She had to pee and then get the clean sheets out of the dryer. 5. Her blackberry went off to remind her about her dentist appt. 6. She called her best friend to discuss how to respond to your email, and the friend told her to wait a day so she didn't look desperate. 7. A Jehovah's Witness rang the bell, and she is FINALLY getting the guy to leave. People have lives beyond the dating site. (Just not beyond LS, thank God.) If someone doesn't respond right away, just remember that maybe the other part of their life got demanding right then.
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