Evenal Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Is it wrong to show off your body online or real life if youre in a relationship?
dreamergrl Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Depends on if one accepts PayPal or not. I knew I was forgetting something when I put up those nudies on myspace. Haha jk. Actually, I have pictures were it appears I'm topless but I'm not. It only shows my shoulders and collar bone. I have a friend who's into photography, and I'll do pictures with him. I'd never go nakie though. Would that turn a guy off?
Lizzie60 Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Is it wrong to show off your body online or real life if youre in a relationship? Why would you do that if you're in a relationship? I don't get it.. What exactly do you mean?
Author Evenal Posted May 18, 2009 Author Posted May 18, 2009 Sorry for lack of description. My boyfriend recently has decided to want to post pictures of his lower abdominal region and various parts of his body as his avatar on msn messanger. I Just wanted to know if you all thought it was innapropriate. My veiw on it is that it is a somewhat cry for attention. Its not at the beach its not anywhere where you would normally be half naked, just random photos of him with barely anything on. He said whats wrong with showing off my body. I dont really want people on his friend list to get the wrong impression of him and think he wants attention for it. He had no real justification for posting almost nude photos of himself up ?? idk maybe im just being rediculous?
Glenn Quagmire Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 If my wife ever posted her tits online without telling me (and us profiting from it) I'd kick her ass straight to the curb. You sound about 15 so it probably doesn't matter but in any mature relationship that **** is completely unacceptable.
JeezLouise Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Sort of like Lizzie? (Thanks, Lizzie, btw, for getting rid of that other boob picture. It seriously looked like someone's butt crack at first glance, and really used to startle me.) I don't think I would be very wild about my BF showing off pictures of his body in an attempt to get attention.
Enema Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 If he's worked out hard at the gym and has a great six pack I think that's fine to show off. If he's showing his meat wand or glutes, probably a bit much.
Shygirl15 Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Is it wrong to show off your body online or real life if youre in a relationship? You have to be really insecure about yourself to actually do that. Not sure if it's wrong or right.
Trialbyfire Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Sorry for lack of description. My boyfriend recently has decided to want to post pictures of his lower abdominal region and various parts of his body as his avatar on msn messanger. I Just wanted to know if you all thought it was innapropriate. My veiw on it is that it is a somewhat cry for attention. Its not at the beach its not anywhere where you would normally be half naked, just random photos of him with barely anything on. He said whats wrong with showing off my body. I dont really want people on his friend list to get the wrong impression of him and think he wants attention for it. He had no real justification for posting almost nude photos of himself up ?? idk maybe im just being rediculous? Yup, showing off body parts online is a definite cry for attention. It doesn't make it right or wrong, just people wanting attention, although with some, when it becomes a constant NEED for attention and validation for their body, there are far deeper issues.
JadedHeart Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Why would you do that if you're in a relationship? I don't get it.. What exactly do you mean? Relationship Lizzie, you've probably never had one since you like to bang multiple people. It's pretty evident with your picture as well. For the OP to even ask they probably know for them it's not right.
JeezLouise Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 If my wife ever posted her tits online without telling me (and us profiting from it) I'd kick her ass straight to the curb. You sound about 15 so it probably doesn't matter but in any mature relationship that **** is completely unacceptable. So it would be ok as long as you were profiting from it? The OP isn't 15.
gopher Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 I knew I was forgetting something when I put up those nudies on myspace. Haha jk. Actually, I have pictures were it appears I'm topless but I'm not. It only shows my shoulders and collar bone. I have a friend who's into photography, and I'll do pictures with him. I'd never go nakie though. Would that turn a guy off? Saw a picture of a woman on a dating site where she appeared to be toppless, but it was cropped. Saw the same picture not cropped on another wedsite and it showed her topless....ooops!...I guess she sent that pic to the wrong guy.
Shygirl15 Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Relationship Lizzie, you've probably never had one since you like to bang multiple people. It's pretty evident with your picture as well. What does this has to do with OP's question??
Glenn Quagmire Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 So it would be ok as long as you were profiting from it? EVERYTHING can be ok if you're profiting from it. I'm a true capitalist ... as long as the price is right.
Jersey Shortie Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 If my wife ever posted her tits online without telling me (and us profiting from it) I'd kick her ass straight to the curb. Yeah, because I am sure you never look at other women's breasts online right? Here is what I think. So many men in relationships are eager to look at other women's naked body. They don't think they are doing anythign wrong. How could a woman in a relationship be doing anything wrong either by showing off her body? I think it's only fair that if a woman in a relationship and wants to show off your body, she can. Most likely, her man *is* looking at othe women's chests. Why shouldn't she get that same kind of attention if she wants it as he is giving other women? What happened to the "they are only "pictures" arguments? Right? They are only pictures. If a man gets upset about this maybe he is really insecure.
Enema Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 I've told you this before, but for the sake of lurkers: To men, porn isn't "real" women. It's just a tool for jerking off. Naked pictures of your significant other is different. You may not understand the distinction, but men do and that's that.
Jersey Shortie Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 If it's not real women to you, then pictures of your woman isn't really a real woman to other men right? Then what is the big deal? Sounds to me like your insecure. So what if your woman wants to show off her body? She is beautiful right? Why do you want to take away some fun she could have being admired for her body? Letting her explore her sexuality. As logn as she isn't talking to these men, where exactly is the harm? Please tell. Do you think she is going to leave you over it? I think you are being hypocritical in your opinion on this. Who cares if a woman with a boyfriend wants to show off her body? What if it made her physically excited? Why would a man want to deny her that pleasure? Wouldn't it be cool if she got all excited from other men looking at pictures of her and then SHE came to YOU for sex? Wouldn't that be really cool? How many guys would like be okay with this?
Dexter Morgan Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 Is it wrong to show off your body online or real life if youre in a relationship? online...yes in real life if it takes the form of a bathing suit on the beach or at the pool...etc....no because then it would be attire appropriate. the former is intentionally trying to sexually stimulate
mr.dream merchant Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 Yeah, because I am sure you never look at other women's breasts online right? Here is what I think. So many men in relationships are eager to look at other women's naked body. They don't think they are doing anythign wrong. How could a woman in a relationship be doing anything wrong either by showing off her body? I think it's only fair that if a woman in a relationship and wants to show off your body, she can. Most likely, her man *is* looking at othe women's chests. Why shouldn't she get that same kind of attention if she wants it as he is giving other women? What happened to the "they are only "pictures" arguments? Right? They are only pictures. If a man gets upset about this maybe he is really insecure. Man why the **** do you always have to pour your Man vs. Woman bull**** on every post? Anyways, IGNORE Jersey Shortie. Yesssss that **** is unacceptable. Ask duke if he'd be okay with you showing off a thong in your MSN Display pic, I'm sure his answer is going to be a solid N-O.
missdependant Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 Haha, I don't think I'd be to crazy about my boyfriend intentionally showing off his goods to other people. Unknowingly, then yes.. but this example is a huge cry for attention, and really juvenile. Tell him to knock it off.
You'reasian Posted May 19, 2009 Posted May 19, 2009 Saw a picture of a woman on a dating site where she appeared to be toppless, but it was cropped. Saw the same picture not cropped on another wedsite and it showed her topless....ooops!...I guess she sent that pic to the wrong guy. Love the cropped, photoshop, fake pics on dating sites!
Jersey Shortie Posted May 20, 2009 Posted May 20, 2009 Yesssss that **** is unacceptable. Ask duke if he'd be okay with you showing off a thong in your MSN Display pic, I'm sure his answer is going to be a solid N-O. Why though? If a woman wants to explore her sexuality and she isn't talking to these guys and she is getting turned on by it and YOU reap the benefits, what is the issue? It's just a picture. If a guy can spend all day looking at other naked women, then he should full well let his women enjoy the looks from other men and she can enjoy showing off her body. It's *you* she is going home with. I am sorry but you sound very insecure. She isn't cheating. WHy not let her explore her sexuality?
missdependant Posted May 20, 2009 Posted May 20, 2009 Why though? If a woman wants to explore her sexuality and she isn't talking to these guys and she is getting turned on by it and YOU reap the benefits, what is the issue? It's just a picture. If a guy can spend all day looking at other naked women, then he should full well let his women enjoy the looks from other men and she can enjoy showing off her body. It's *you* she is going home with. I am sorry but you sound very insecure. She isn't cheating. WHy not let her explore her sexuality? Have you even read anything in this thread? She's not even the one showing off naked pictures, it's her boyfriend. And also, I'm curious.. how does showing people naked pictures of oneself help someone "explore" sexuality?
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