Jdancer21 Posted May 17, 2009 Posted May 17, 2009 God forbid the person I'm talking about has an account on here. Anyway, I've realized more people respond when a post is straight to the point. Met a guy via online. Has a passion for the arts as much as I do. We met. I felt like we had an amazing connection. I felt something more could come out of it. Had to go back his hometown to get his life together and plans to come back in a couple of weeks. Have not heard a D@mn thing from him. I sent him a text and told him about the show and he responded but have heard nothing since. The killer part was I sent an e-mail via facebook just to say hey and he didn't respond, I know he got it b/c he can change his facebook status and his picture. Right now i'm thinking, "That's all the answer you need" Now before you respond with "MOVE ON". Hear are some things to consider. A) Before he met me, he just got out of a broken relationship. his ex GF basically said "found someone else, screw you". B)After we had met and I left, about 15 minutes later he sends me a text message saying "guess i have a reason to come back":confused: C) Is it possible that since I hit him up first, that he is waiting....wait.. screw that. D) Facebook is a sucky way to say whether someone is interested in you or not. Basically at the end of the day, it's all said and done. He's a big boy and knows how to call or send a response. However, i'm a logistical (is that even a word?) kind of person. Why the heck send a text like that and all of a sudden be like "screw you". I have managed to go on about my buisiness and hang out with other people. But I'm just wondering should I try to get in contact with him one more time to set up some closure? either way, he better give me my d@mn watch back. LOL!
xpaperxcutx Posted May 17, 2009 Posted May 17, 2009 Was your first meeting really short? If you haven't spent enough time with him, I would think he only said those things because he was in the moment. He could just as easily have lost interest after returning home. Internet dating isn't always 100%, especially if you meet right away. You might have became attached faster than he did. If you've been the one initiating this entire time, it's safe to say, he's lost interest. Don't put yourself in a position that might make you look desperate.
tinklebell Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 The killer part was I sent an e-mail via facebook just to say hey and he didn't respond, I know he got it b/c he can change his facebook status and his picture. Did you say you sent an email just saying "hey" without any other messages? There's nothing to reply to a "hey" message.
Author Jdancer21 Posted May 18, 2009 Author Posted May 18, 2009 Did you say you sent an email just saying "hey" without any other messages? There's nothing to reply to a "hey" message. No, I asked how he was also. Y'know one of those "Wanted to check-in" e-mails. Either way, it's done.
BCCA Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 No, I asked how he was also. Y'know one of those "Wanted to check-in" e-mails. Either way, it's done. Ugh...I hate that feeling. I too have sent a few messages over FB that werent returned, and you feel like a fool. One girl just removed me from her friends list all together, and another I was doing to same thing as you - noticing new pics/status updates, but no response. his ex GF basically said "found someone else, screw you". Yeah, him and 90% of us guys that get dumped. No offense, but thats usually how we men get dumped; the girl finds someone else first. As long as its been longer than a month of so, this shouldnt be too much of an issue. After we had met and I left, about 15 minutes later he sends me a text message saying "guess i have a reason to come back I wouldnt read too much into this, sounds like more of a nice thing to say than anything. Facebook is a sucky way to say whether someone is interested in you or not. Usually, you only find out if they arent. These online sites just complicate our lives these days, no one uses phones or anything, they just text or send you a FB mesage. I'm sure you know this, but let it go. You made a good effort, what more can you do?
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