lazcat Posted May 17, 2009 Posted May 17, 2009 I started dating a guy I met very recently and we went on 3 very romantic dates in which he kissed me, held my hand, touched my butt, etc..enough physical cues to show me he's interested. Beyond the physical, we connected and had a lot in common, had fun together, similar sense of humor, etc. I just found out from his friend that he has a girlfriend in another state!! WTF? Why wouldn't he just be up front with me and tell me about that? Now I am going to have to confront him and ask him what the deal is. I've never been in this situation before. He is a nice guy, not someone who is a player or comes off as a cheater in any way..I have to get his side of the story for sure before I jump to conclusions but I'm seriously freaking out. If I was just a fling for him, then I guess that's OK and I can move on, but it's disappointing. Anyone else with a similar experience?
boogieboy Posted May 17, 2009 Posted May 17, 2009 Sure, he should tell you he has a gf. And how many dates would he have gotten with you if he confessed day 1 that he wants to keep seeing her while hes seeing you?
Bejita463 Posted May 17, 2009 Posted May 17, 2009 He is a nice guy, not someone who is a player or comes off as a cheater in any way.. That's kinda how it tends to work. Cheaters wouldn't be very successful if it was obvious they were the type.
xpaperxcutx Posted May 17, 2009 Posted May 17, 2009 What a jackass. If anything, and he denies it, just bash him on the internet.
samsungxoxo Posted May 17, 2009 Posted May 17, 2009 Poor girlfriend, I feel bad for her, doesn't know what type of jerk she has. Well my guess is that one day she will find out. Anyways yeah think you should confront on why he didn't tell you he was taken.
SueBee3490 Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Well I've been in his girlfriend's shoes and it sucks. I really feel sorry for her and hope she finds out somehow and gets out of the relationship before he hurts her more. I would also confront him on why he didn't tell you he has a girlfriend. Then I'd probably get out of the relationship because I am sure he did not tell his girlfriend that he was seeing you and he also started off your relationship with a lie by not telling you about his girlfriend! A real loser
Dexter Morgan Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 I started dating a guy I met very recently and we went on 3 very romantic dates in which he kissed me, held my hand, touched my butt, etc..enough physical cues to show me he's interested. Beyond the physical, we connected and had a lot in common, had fun together, similar sense of humor, etc. I just found out from his friend that he has a girlfriend in another state!! WTF? Why wouldn't he just be up front with me and tell me about that? because he's a cheating jackass. Now I am going to have to confront him and ask him what the deal is. I've never been in this situation before. He is a nice guy not if he is cheating on his girlfriend not someone who is a player or comes off as a cheater in any way thats because he knows how to work it.
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