neveragain2493 Posted May 17, 2009 Posted May 17, 2009 To make this short, about two months ago, I went out on a date with a guy who was broken up with his girlfriend at the time. Prior to the date, we had been best friends until the girlfriend had came along. He told me he was intimidated by me, but he liked me, 'wanted' me, I was the best friend he had ever had, etc... We kissed.. He tried to have sex with me, but I told him then was not the time. However, he kept telling me what a great time he had days later, and how much he liked me and wanted to be with me. Anyways, weeks later, he went back to his girlfriend and failed to tell me... for no reason. Initially, it was because she was being suicidal. She has bipolar disorder. However, they got back together. A real loser, I know. So you'd think he was back with her, right? That he wouldn't think about me at all? I still catch him staring at me all the time in class. It's really odd. And today, I went to a swimming party. He was there. He watched me strip down to my bathing suit and proceeded to 'check me out', I guess, the rest of the day. If he totally did not pay me mind, I would not be bothered. But for some reason, I am. And I know I should not be. Explanation? Advice?
boogieboy Posted May 17, 2009 Posted May 17, 2009 Put it this way, you want him to have his cake and eat it too? Thats what hes going for. You gonna fall for it? You gonna allow it to bug you?
Author neveragain2493 Posted May 18, 2009 Author Posted May 18, 2009 I see what you mean by 'have his cake and eat it too'. If anything, I think it bugs me that I have not gotten the last word in on how I feel.
BCCA Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 I see what you mean by 'have his cake and eat it too'. If anything, I think it bugs me that I have not gotten the last word in on how I feel. Getting your last word in wont do any good. Its like 'getting closure', sounds great in theory, but doesnt really make you feel any different in real life.
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