Kage111 Posted May 17, 2009 Posted May 17, 2009 Let's see... She broke off our 4 year relationship in November... I haven't spoken to her or contacted her in any way since January... That was around when she started blocking me on everything. And I started getting better, learning to live without her. Then she messaged me sometime in March saying she missed me as a friend. Unblocked me on everything. I took everyone's advice and never responded. Eventually, she blocked me again. And I was happy for about a month. Dating other girls finally. I saw her a lot since we lived in the same building, but I just moved out last week. Now I get these dreams every single night... I swear I'm seven out of seven right now. Dreams where she comes back wanting to try again. I know they're just dreams but they are tearing down everything I had built to fill the hole she left... It's really starting to get to me and it's interfering with my new life. Maybe it's because somewhere inside, when I moved out of her building, a part of me realized I may never see her again... and it scares me. I don't know. I spent 4 years with this girl, we pretty much lived together for 2... and now, when I'm in the same elevator as her, we don't even say "hi." What happened? I want to call her so bad... Just to see how she's doing. I was doing so well... What should I do?
boogieboy Posted May 17, 2009 Posted May 17, 2009 Fight the good fight. You resisted this long, you can keep it going. DO NOT call her, you DONT need to see how shes doing, you DEFINITLY dont need to be friends with her. It will bring you back down to place you dont need to be, especially since you're having dreams about her. You were doing so well moving on with dating and such, why would you want to relapse now?
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