andreautick Posted October 23, 2003 Posted October 23, 2003 Ok, so the guy I have been interested in all year and I finally have a date--and he seems just as interested. I have a great feeling about him. The problem: I have a boyfriend. We've broken up 4 times in the past 7 months and I'm not really feeling the relationship anymore--but he hasn't done anything to warrant dumping. I know it's not going to last, but he's been good lately and I haven't been able to dump him. But, it's not serious by any means (he never wants to get married or have kids--ever), so I figured it'd be ok to go on a date with this other guy. I'm not going to kiss him or anything, just get to know who he is a little better. Is that ok, or am I a total raging bitch?? I'm really excited for this opportunity.
ArdeaCandidissima Posted October 23, 2003 Posted October 23, 2003 ...you make it clear to everyone involved that you are not considering either relationship exclusive. If they don't like it, they don't have to participate, but they can't cry foul. I'd actually like to see lots more multi-dating and less serial monogamy among young people.
UCFKevin Posted October 24, 2003 Posted October 24, 2003 I think it's totally okay. If you get to like the new guy more, dump the other one, just say there's no future and you want to see other people. Simple as that.
TheDonny Posted October 24, 2003 Posted October 24, 2003 I a total raging bitch?? Yes, Just Kidding. Ok well the plan is to see if the other guy is better, right? So if you feel a kiss just go with it and see where it takes you.
jalexy Posted October 24, 2003 Posted October 24, 2003 its just not "ok" to set aside one guy and keep him out in the blue, so you can date another. cut one off and date the other.
Dreamgirl03 Posted October 26, 2003 Posted October 26, 2003 I can also relate to this...I have a boyfriend and everything, and i care about him...but the problem is my ex fiancee keeps coming by every couple weeks or so..and the more he comes around, the more i realize i still have feelings for him. I feel like its tearing me apart...Ive told both of the guys how i feel..and they both seem to understabd..but there is no chance for me and my ex to get back together. So..i guess as soon as i figure out what to do i`ll get back to u..lol. maybe we can figure it out together
Goatsbreath Posted October 27, 2003 Posted October 27, 2003 atleast let both partys know your intentions. otherwise you are a cheater.
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