hub8 Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 wat to do next ? I have been seeing a lass for 6 month, she recently had an operation and was bed ridden for 2month. During this time she refused to see me, subsqently our relationship took a nose dive. She broke it off "not ready for a relationship" 3 weeks on we were sex texting that type of thing, then out of the blue she has gone cold again claiming we are just friends etc. I had a job offer away in portgual which i turned down not due to her. argeeing to meet in october when i would return. now she is saying for me to leave her alone and give her space, but i dont want to lose her i just dont know what to do i love her and seems i cant win
carhill Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 She's banging someone else. Sorry... Or, if whatever put her in bed killed her self-esteem, she may not feel worthy. My instinct is on number one, though...
Author hub8 Posted May 16, 2009 Author Posted May 16, 2009 She's banging someone else. Sorry... Or, if whatever put her in bed killed her self-esteem, she may not feel worthy. My instinct is on number one, though... it cant be another lad as it was female trouble that laid her up, i feel like shes lost wanting help but not accepting it
carhill Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 So, if you're confident, be distantly and consistently supportive and leave her the space she desires. In the meantime, enjoy the company of other nice lasses. Space is a two-way street.
Author hub8 Posted May 16, 2009 Author Posted May 16, 2009 So, if you're confident, be distantly and consistently supportive and leave her the space she desires. In the meantime, enjoy the company of other nice lasses. Space is a two-way street. it got quite heated between us, how shud a let her know am at a distance, or should i just complety back off and leave her to it?
carhill Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 Send a brief and supportive e-mail or card/letter occasionally to let her know you're thinking of her. Be consistent. Enjoy the company of other women. This sends the proper signals. Respect of her request and attention to your own needs and desires. Balance
boogieboy Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 Best thing you can do now is to never contact her again, until she initiates contact. Maybe she will miss you. If you dont hear from her again, she does not. She probably is checking someone else out.
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