aiina Posted May 15, 2009 Posted May 15, 2009 Hello everyone NC works, really. I read about this so many times on this forum, and i am experiencing it right now. In my situation I knew the 'relationship' wasn't a relationship since probably never. At that time it looked like one, of course, but I don't think he never got really involved to it, which is something difficult to describe, but I felt that way. NC made me focus on myself, and the things I wanted and needed to do and change on myself. These changes seemed to make me good, as someone else started to notice me and things are going well and slowly. And he makes me realize, every day, that when they say relationships don't have to be complicated, they are right. We are at the begining and we all know the first months are all nice and good, but I don't feel taken for granted, and all dailies seem so much nicer with him around. So, for all of you thinking your exs are the love of your lives ... probably not, so give yourselves the chance to meet someone new, but remember the lesson you learned from this past experience. when you let go, you really free youself.
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