EmperorR Posted May 15, 2009 Posted May 15, 2009 I'm a idiot, I was just cleaning up my msn list and unblocked a few emails and one was my ex, a second later she emails me, I didn't even know who it was then I realized. All she said is "I guess were ok because you unblocked me", I quickly reblocked. Can't believe I slipped up like that
notalone Posted May 15, 2009 Posted May 15, 2009 Wow. She has to be pretty worked up to email you the minute you unblock her. It's so unfair....they get to break hearts...and then they get to plead guilty and we feel morally bound to forgive them. So basically, they get everything they want...and the the dumped ones get a broken heart and and even forsake the right to be angry!
Author EmperorR Posted May 15, 2009 Author Posted May 15, 2009 I know, shockingly it had no effect on me, I'm going away on a trip tomorrow for a week so I should reach back to 7 days quickly. I was almost going to write nah I just thought you deleted me already see ya.
Cora Posted May 15, 2009 Posted May 15, 2009 Don't feel bad! When I first went or tried to go NC with my ex I kept slipping. It was mostly because he just up and disappeared on me for no apparent reason and left me with all these questions....and damnit I wanted answers! I finally realized I wasn't going to get those answers....I was going to get no closure so I had to make my own closure. I figured he owed me some kind of exlaination after an eight month so called relationship but my mistake. Apparently he didn't owe me crap! Sorry I'm rambling...the point is don't beat yourself up over it. Just start back over again and remain strong. You didn't actually say anything to her so that's good right? I probably would of been too weak if my ex would of said something to me.
whichwayisup Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 I thought when you blocked someone on email it didn't show. Anyway, you are stronger and wiser now, so think of this as a little slip up..You'll be fine.
burningashes Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 I know, shockingly it had no effect on me, I'm going away on a trip tomorrow for a week so I should reach back to 7 days quickly. I was almost going to write nah I just thought you deleted me already see ya. It obviously had an effect on you, because otherwise you wouldn't have posted. S'okay, keep coming here, we're here for you buddy!
Author EmperorR Posted May 17, 2009 Author Posted May 17, 2009 she called me yesterday first time in like 2 months I didnt pick up then she text me I told her to never contact me again, i felt bad today added her to facebook lol she acc3epts then i guess she sees all the girls leaving messages on my wall so she blocks and delete me lol, not that I care anymore its having no effect on me.
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