lonelypiscesguy Posted May 15, 2009 Posted May 15, 2009 The ex removed me from her friends list on Facebook immediately after the break-up, but she has yet to remove me from her Yahoo messenger or as a friend on classmates.com, where she found me after all those years. What gives?
brokenglass Posted May 15, 2009 Posted May 15, 2009 Shes probably done it to spare your feelings, there must be something going on on Facebook thats not happening on Classmates. Keeping you on Yahoo would have no bearing either way, she could just stay invisible to you. I would let it roll off your shoulders and not care. She is your ex after all. The more you think about the why, the more you prevent yourself from moving forward. Just don't think about it, as hard as that seems. Why don't you jump the gun, delete her from Classmates and block & delete her from Yahoo. Finish what she has started, take the power back!
bluewolf17 Posted May 15, 2009 Posted May 15, 2009 Maybe she uses Facebook more. That's where you can show pictures, etc right? I wouldn't read to much into it. I thought my ex still cared for me, as all of my friends and me where still his myspace and facebook friends. Truth is, he is just lazy.
Author lonelypiscesguy Posted May 15, 2009 Author Posted May 15, 2009 Quite possible, the sparing my feelings part. She appears online whenever she is on Yahoo. You know, the little window that pops up in the bottom of the screen that says "******* is online"? your right, I'm not really tripping. I am almost over her, for the most part.
brokenglass Posted May 15, 2009 Posted May 15, 2009 I am almost over her, for the most part. Lets seal this deal then brother. Erase her from the other aspects of your online life. She knows how to get a hold of you if she desperately needs to talk or see you. But we're not worried about that. We're worried about you and your well being. Erase her man. Erase her, smile to yourself, and take a mental step forward, think happy thoughts just like Peter Pan! I know that's a silly joke but that's how I conduct my life, and my ex and I have a wonderful friendly relationship. It hurts and stings (the reason I'm here is because I just got done whining about it lol) but overall, you control you. Seal the deal man. Then you have nothing to worry about, nothing to plague your mind.
t0ri Posted May 15, 2009 Posted May 15, 2009 I agree with brokenglass. Do it yourself, erase her and finish the job!
Author lonelypiscesguy Posted May 15, 2009 Author Posted May 15, 2009 I know you're right, BG, but you also must know how difficult that is. I don't read our love emails anymore, but I know being the sentimental sap that I am, I know I will want to someday. Really, I'm fine. Most people agree that even if I was a little selfish and thoughtless at times, she did ME the favor of setting me free to find a healthy relationship, and I wasn't THAT selfish, she even said so right before breaking up with me. Now the anger (not bitterness or resentment or regret, really) is setting in for being cast aside and branded as selfish by a woman that forgets how much I looked past to be with her. She brought a LOT of baggage to the table, something that I feel is pretty selfless on my part. But maybe I'm still being selfish, IDK...
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