Anis Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 I don't want to rock the boat on his end. If he's really trying to make his marriage work, then you're throwing him a hot potato that he would be obligated to tell his wife about. You're putting him in an uncomfortable situation all the way around. Give the guy a chance to do the right thing, and DON'T let him know you still care, for your own dignity.
Author SierraRose Posted May 17, 2009 Author Posted May 17, 2009 Thank you for all your support. I haven't contacted, him and I feel it is best that i DON'T.
Author SierraRose Posted May 17, 2009 Author Posted May 17, 2009 I have done a lot to move on with my life; understand, I do not lay awake at night wondering what might be. Although I still care very much, he is not the focus of my day. I do not want to disrupt his life, or send his wife on a rampage. I do not want to disupt MY life... Drama not for me. I posted just to confirm I was doing the right thing. Just b/c I feel, doesn't mean I will act.
Author SierraRose Posted May 17, 2009 Author Posted May 17, 2009 Good point, I wonder who's birthday came first after the breakup? I already thought of that...mine...lol AND NO, NOTHING...
fooled once Posted May 17, 2009 Posted May 17, 2009 Jet, why would you encourage her to get hurt? She is still having feelings for a man who chose his Wife. NOT her. She is doing great in moving on with her life, without him. WHY in the world would you encourage someone to keep poking at a scab? OP, you are doing great. Keep it up.!
Author SierraRose Posted May 17, 2009 Author Posted May 17, 2009 he is a man in a situation where he does NOT need to know you care. It will make no difference to him. Wait till he contacts you. And for goodness sake, stop thinking about him, its been 8 months. Have you done nothing to help yourself move on? maybe to someone new? You gotta work on this, 8 months is TOO long to hang on to someone. I am involved with my son's activities, see friends, and have gotten reaquainted with old hobbies that I had lost interested in. I am not dating anyone, because I haven't met a decent quality guy. I really am just focusing on myself right now, not so much a love life. It will happen when it happens. As far as my feelings for MM? I am only human, u know...
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