trenino Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 ok. i want to ask from guys point of view.. what do u think if a lady approach you and try to know u ? do u find it as a turn-off ? i like a particular guy which working in the same building in which i am working, i dont know him but we bumped into each other few times and had eye contacts yet the situations always were not very good...many people around,my colleagues or his colleagues were around...inside a lift..etc. my male friend suggested me to give him a hint..or started a conversation but i am afraid.. what if he is not even single? tell me what do u think? what is the best approach without appears to pushy or trying too hard?
sid3 Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 I thinks it's a good thing. I had a lady approach me last week while I was working in my yard. The first day she walked by and smiled. The second day she smiled and said hi. The third day she stopped and made some casual conversation. What I notice the most in these circumstances is their body language. Her's was quite flirtatious. I mean what are the chances that she needed to stretch and and arch her back (showing off her breasts) at that particular moment. You can just tell instinctually when eye contact lasts even the slightest bit longer than 'normal' Being pushy shouldn't be a concern for you as long as you rmember that flirting is suppose to be fun. Good for you for having a crush. Although it can drive you crazy wondering if they're single, unless they are socially retarded it shoud be easy to let them know your interested.
Charm13 Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 Ok, I'm not a guy, BUT, I think you should chat him up. Do you really want it to be one of those "what if" situations? He might be sitting at his desk right now thinking the same thing you are. YOU GO GIRL!!
tinklebell Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 ok. i want to ask from guys point of view.. what do u think if a lady approach you and try to know u ? do u find it as a turn-off ? i like a particular guy which working in the same building in which i am working, i dont know him but we bumped into each other few times and had eye contacts yet the situations always were not very good...many people around,my colleagues or his colleagues were around...inside a lift..etc. my male friend suggested me to give him a hint..or started a conversation but i am afraid.. what if he is not even single? tell me what do u think? what is the best approach without appears to pushy or trying too hard? Unfortunately there is no one-size-fits-all answer. I've done that before. Some guys took it better than others. I found out one was already going out with someone. As cliche as it sounds, you can only find out if you talk to him. Or how about the good ol' smile and see how he responds to it before making your move?
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