love_story Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 I'm trying to figure out what's going on with me.LOL I recently started a new relationship with a buy. We met fort he 1st time about 2 weeks ago and we had sex, good sex, a lot of it. After that all I could think of was just about him and kissing etc. like a teenager. Yesterday we went on out 2nd date. Until 2 days before yesterday I was thinking about him like crazy, but just the day before the 2nd date I stopped thinking about him in a romantic way. Nothing happened, we talked and chatted the same way and evrything was the same as before, even better. I am still thinking about him in a good way, but I don't understand what happened.
era Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 ???.. - How can you be having "sex, good sex, a lot of it"..and also be in a " relationship" with him when you ONLY WENT ON THE SECOND DATE WITH HIM YESTERDAY???....
Bejita463 Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 Well, she did say "new relationship." Anyway. Whatever happened, it wasn't love.
era Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 love story... Is this about the same married man you've recently posted threads about??? Here And here
xpaperxcutx Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 Huh? You barely went on a second date and you're in love with him? What?!!
Author love_story Posted May 14, 2009 Author Posted May 14, 2009 love story... Is this about the same married man you've recently posted threads about??? Here And here Era, Does it matter? I don't understand why a few people here don't just answer to my question instead of assuming things or asking me other questions. I did receive some crappy answers to my other questions and I only came to this forum to find some answers to my questions, not to get critized. I got answers like do not get involved with the MM. My question was about if or not to get involved with the MM.
xpaperxcutx Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 I think the question you really should be asking yourself is do you fall for people easily? I think it's the high you get when you're with someone, it seems like it gives you excitement. But when you distance yourself away from them, your high comes down. So it's not really love you're experiencing so much as you're just going through the motions of dating.
Author love_story Posted May 14, 2009 Author Posted May 14, 2009 Huh? You barely went on a second date and you're in love with him? What?!! Maybe I should have used "" in the title. I have said in the post that it was like a teenager feeling type. BTW, never heard of love at first sight?
era Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 I got answers like do not get involved with the MM. Sounds like good answers to me..
Author love_story Posted May 14, 2009 Author Posted May 14, 2009 I think the question you really should be asking yourself is do you fall for people easily? I think it's the high you get when you're with someone, it seems like it gives you excitement. But when you distance yourself away from them, your high comes down. So it's not really love you're experiencing so much as you're just going through the motions of dating. I don't know about you or others, but to me "being in love" and "love some one" are two different concepts. One can love somebody without being in love. To me being in love=falling in love is like the feeling in the beginning of a relationship, more like a dreaming and fantisizing feeling rather than deep feelings. But thanks for your answer.
Author love_story Posted May 14, 2009 Author Posted May 14, 2009 Sounds like good answers to me.. Again Era, If the answers were good or not, it doesn't matter because I didn't ask that question. I know very well other women's opinion on that and I also know that one of the reasons some women told me that was that they were cheatted on by their husbands and I find it normal to say stay away from a MM. However, I have a different opinion about getting involved witha MM.
carhill Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 OP, your brain chemistry changed. Wait until you're ovulating again. It'll be back
Author love_story Posted May 14, 2009 Author Posted May 14, 2009 OP, your brain chemistry changed. Wait until you're ovulating again. It'll be back Funny, I didn't think about that. i'm before my period, but I don't really know when it's going to come. It's been pretty unpredictable lately. Thanks
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