saram613 Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 i need some help, or some advice. Im struggling to cope with my relationship breaking up, it came out of the blue after 16 months of what i believed was a really good relationship. he basically doesnt want a long term commitment or to move to the next step with me which would be living together. Yes, that is what i wanted but not him. I can understand that its better to end if we wanted different things but what i cant seem to get my head around with is how depressed and miserable i feel whilst he seems to be getting on okay! He is 10 years older than me and has 2 kids (18 and 21) who live with him, plus a sister and a mum near by. I have no family, great friends who have been really supportive but i still feel as if my whole world has cometo an end. I feel all alone and dont want to get up, eat, do anything. And to make it worse, we work together. well in the same office anyway, not every day but some shifts we do. I saw him yesterday and was on a high which i now know was because i saw him as today i am back to feeling really low again. Help me move on, help me to stop loving him? how do i do it???
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