OverThinker Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 Ok so my GF and I havn't seen each other since saturday night and no sex that night too tired. yesturday she didn't want me to come over cause she was tired from staying up the night before for a test. so we made plans to get together tonight. So I went over and her brother and cousin were there. So we all just hung out again no sex because they were there and she said she was too tired. While there I foud out that she ended up going out with friends on tuesday night to a club and was up tell 3am but remember when I talked to her at 5 she was too tired for me to come over. We kissed and had some body contact while I was there but whats up is she not really into me or is this normal for a girl to tell her BF she is too tired to see him and then when a friend calls she goes out partying. I'm a little drunk and horny its been over a week since the last time we had sex but I'm I paranoid for no reason or does this sound like something is going on that she is not elling me. Should I say something to her or just let it go as normal and no big deal. Thanks for your input.
Bejita463 Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 whats up is she not really into me or is this normal for a girl to tell her BF she is too tired to see him and then when a friend calls she goes out partying. I don't really know, but that right there is pretty shady. Have you talked to her about this?
SoulSearch_CO Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 is this normal for a girl to tell her BF she is too tired to see him and then when a friend calls she goes out partying. I say no. Not if I'm really into the guy. HOWEVER...it's possible she WAS tired, but her mood perked up between the time you talked to her and her friend called? My moods can fluctuate pretty quickly from moment to moment. But if that were the case, I'd rather see my BF than some chicks to go out clubbing.
xpaperxcutx Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 Normally in a relationship, the girl is more horny than the guy. But if she was too tired then yes, it wouldn't be so hard to believe that she doesn't want intimacy. Next time, make a date with her so she's actually energized to meet you without feeling tired.
Bejita463 Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 Normally in a relationship, the girl is more horny than the guy. Uh.. What.
xpaperxcutx Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 Uh.. What. It's true. I was always the one initiating sex. Or maybe it's just me?
Island Girl Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 Uh.. What. That is what I was thinking! LOL OP - Are you romancing her or are you just headed to hit it? Because your girl may be distancing herself and may be a lot of things. Some of those things are fixed by showing her less attention. BUT if you aren't romancing her and she is feeling unappreciated, etc. then if you show her less attention it will have the opposite reaction. The way you post, it sounds like it have been a while since you took her out to a nice dinner or bought her flowers, a card, something.
filh Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 It's true. I was always the one initiating sex. Or maybe it's just me? I guess everyone's different lol
Author OverThinker Posted May 14, 2009 Author Posted May 14, 2009 The way you post, it sounds like it have been a while since you took her out to a nice dinner or bought her flowers, a card, something. I sent flowers to her at work on monday and took her and some friends to an exclusive club in hollywood on saturday before that.
era Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 This is the same as your other thread you posted...you said you typically see eachother every few days, in your other thread you said you saw her on Saturday...click here Normally in a relationship, the girl is more horny than the guy. ???..
JustLooking123 Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 Is this type of behavior a pattern, or an isolated incident? If she usually isn't like that, I'd ride it out. If this is usual for her, I'd start to rethink things and/or have a talk with her.
Author OverThinker Posted May 14, 2009 Author Posted May 14, 2009 This is the same as your other thread you posted...you said you typically see eachother every few days, in your other thread you said you saw her on Saturday...click here True I went back and looked at that one Pretty much the same(title and all) I guess the fact that she had told me she was tired and going to bed and then stayed up all night at a club with friends just bothered me. I thought that things were gonna go one way and they didn't. So sorry for the repeat post but I guess I was just horny and let it go to my head (the one on my sholders LOL). This is pretty much the way our relationship has gone (seeing each other every few days) guess I am just trying to reassure myself that in this situation this type of behavior is somewhat normal and not a sign she doesn't really Dig me. Thaks
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