SpanksTheMonkey Posted September 13, 2009 Posted September 13, 2009 OK hold the kitty cat up here so your doing drugs now and slamming him for the same thing? Or is this just something you tried tonight for the 1st time RS? I think what you need to do is just relax stay inside your house lock the doors. And curl up and take a nap or something I doubt the guys going to attack you its prob the drugs playing on your brain girl..
Author Ruby Slippers Posted September 13, 2009 Author Posted September 13, 2009 Thanks. I called my mom. She said have a friend come over or go to a friend's. I called a friend, and I'm gonna crash at her place. Getting a cab to come and get me right now.
boldjack Posted September 13, 2009 Posted September 13, 2009 RUBY, ARE YOU SAFE???? Please contact me, if you are afraid. My son is a cop and can make 1 call and have somebody there, any where in the U.S. Please respond!!!
SpanksTheMonkey Posted September 13, 2009 Posted September 13, 2009 Thanks. I called my mom. She said have a friend come over or go to a friend's. I called a friend, and I'm gonna crash at her place. Getting a cab to come and get me right now. Thats good to hear your safe please come back tomorrow once your head clears and let us know your def OK! RS doing drugs is not good but I don't have to tell you that. If this was your 1st time trying them then may I suggest you have no more contact with that guy as he seams to have more of a neg influence on you then positive! Who knows it may have very well been laced seams like quite a reaction to just a joint all tho I don't think hes purposely trying to hurt you but just be careful OK take care and hope you feel better... I think shes OK bold honestly I do she will be back tomorrow I'm sure..
Island Girl Posted September 13, 2009 Posted September 13, 2009 RUBY, ARE YOU SAFE???? Please contact me, if you are afraid. My son is a cop and can make 1 call and have somebody there, any where in the U.S. Please respond!!! boldjack you really are a very wonderful man. I think Ruby left to go to her friends house
Author Ruby Slippers Posted September 13, 2009 Author Posted September 13, 2009 RUBY, ARE YOU SAFE???? Please contact me, if you are afraid. My son is a cop and can make 1 call and have somebody there, any where in the U.S. Please respond!!! You are so sweet. Thank you so much. I went to my friend's house, and last night I was so freaked out I was sure I was going to have to move. I talked to my closest friends about it, and they all agreed that was a good idea. My lease is up for renewal right now, so it wouldn't be the end of the world. He was talking crazy last night. He said, "You go out and have your fun -- just don't cheat on me." I said, "WHAT??? We are NOT a couple." And he kept interrogating me about whether I've ever cheated on anyone. He told me his ex-wife cheated on him, and this is clearly a huge issue for him. He was getting emotional and raising his voice. He basically said that he can't hold himself back from wanting me in that way, so I'm going to have to cut him out of my life entirely if I don't want him, too. If there was something in the weed, maybe he was affected by it, too, and that's why he was talking crazy. Not sure. After sleeping it off at my friend's, I decided I will stay here at my house for the next few days and see how I feel. I had two of my guy friends bring me home and hang out for a while. I don't think he will do anything. If anything gets weird, I will leave. But it's VERY clear now that I can't have ANYTHING to do with him anymore. I don't want to antagonize him or piss him off, so I will say hi if we pass each other outside, but I'm not going to have anything to do with him anymore. I am very aware of my part in all this, and I feel horrible about it. I feel so stupid and naive, and scared because I unknowingly put myself in harm's way. I definitely need to wise up. And my mom and a friend told me to quit smoking weed, and I am going to. I had stopped for a couple of months, but I think I started again as part of a self-sabotaging cycle. I'm too sensitive to chemicals to handle it.
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