luckygirly Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 I think the term fetish might be a little strong. Is it a turn on for her to see me in my bare feet? Sure. Is it the only way she gets turned on? No. I haven't asked much in the way of pointed questions other than asking her why she liked it, to which she said that it's a "cute look" for me. It's not something she insists on, just something she has a strong preference for. this sounds a lot like an old boyfriend of mine. he wasnt into anything weird, just was real into seeing me barefoot. we had some fun with it. one day we went to run some errands at a bunch of places, post office, mini mart, and stuff. while he was getting the car started, i slipped off my shoes before we left. he noticed right away when i got in the car. his frustration was entertaining. there i was barefoot for hours and he knew we couldn't "do anything" (wink wink!) because we were out in public. and i think the whole "feeling naked" is a guy thing. the old b/f was the same way. for some reason its more socially acceptable for women to go around barefoot than guys. try going with her for walks in the park if you're worried about standing out in a crowd. lots of people go there barefooted.
Author miketanner Posted May 16, 2009 Author Posted May 16, 2009 this sounds a lot like an old boyfriend of mine. he wasnt into anything weird, just was real into seeing me barefoot. we had some fun with it. one day we went to run some errands at a bunch of places, post office, mini mart, and stuff. while he was getting the car started, i slipped off my shoes before we left. he noticed right away when i got in the car. his frustration was entertaining. there i was barefoot for hours and he knew we couldn't "do anything" (wink wink!) because we were out in public. I'm trying to think of some ways I can tease her like that. And I like your idea about the park.
Isolde Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 Feet can be cute, it's not that complicated Also, people wear shoes almost all the time as that's "proper" in society; without shoes, there's a certain vulnerability she may find sexy.
sally4sara Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 I am very attracted to some men's forearms. I always thought that was less than common..... But when I examined it I realized the forearm is one of the areas on a man's body that visibly changes during puberty. I realized it was an instinctual attraction; the visible change indicated a boy had become sexually mature - at least physically . I am past puberty but I still like forearms. This happens to feet too. They become veiny and hairier. Maybe the visible change is what appeals to her?
Author miketanner Posted May 17, 2009 Author Posted May 17, 2009 Feet can be cute, it's not that complicated Also, people wear shoes almost all the time as that's "proper" in society; without shoes, there's a certain vulnerability she may find sexy. Well, I can say that I felt a little vulnerable and exposed going barefoot to blockbuster . I thought I was going to get a lot of funny looks but I don't think anyone even noticed, except my girlfriend, that is.
JeezLouise Posted May 17, 2009 Posted May 17, 2009 Maybe it's because I was brought up in the South, but I wouldn't be going barefoot downtown or where there are lots of people and sidewalks. Men down here spit EVERYWHERE! I would take a pair of shoes for the week as backup - some Sperry's or something. Casual enough for shorts or jeans, nice enough for khakis.
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