miketanner Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 Ok, this is kinda of an odd one. Been dating this girl for a little while now. Recently whenever we're hanging out she'll ask me to take off my shoes and socks. Finally asked her about it and she said that she thinks I look "cute" when I'm barefoot, especially if I'm wearing jeans. I asked what if I'm in shorts and she said that does it for her too, but not as much. So I've been playing along. Even went as far last Friday when I went to stay at her place for the weekend and left my shoes at home. When she saw I was in my bare feet she seemed more than a little pleased. I've been with girls who liked it when I didn't wear a shirt and stuff like that, but I've never come across one that wants me to go barefoot. Anyone known a girl whose into that?
LoneWolfie Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 Ok, this is kinda of an odd one. Been dating this girl for a little while now. Recently whenever we're hanging out she'll ask me to take off my shoes and socks. Finally asked her about it and she said that she thinks I look "cute" when I'm barefoot, especially if I'm wearing jeans. I asked what if I'm in shorts and she said that does it for her too, but not as much. So I've been playing along. Even went as far last Friday when I went to stay at her place for the weekend and left my shoes at home. When she saw I was in my bare feet she seemed more than a little pleased. I've been with girls who liked it when I didn't wear a shirt and stuff like that, but I've never come across one that wants me to go barefoot. Anyone known a girl whose into that? I cant say i do, but considering some other preferences you girl COULD have had id say this isnt as strange or weird. Just make yourself look cute for her and enjoy her reaction. Have fun.
BCCA Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 Meh, seems pretty harmless to me. I have a thing for curly hair and glasses, and have asked girls to put their glasses on during sex because I think its hot. We like what we like.
Glenn Quagmire Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 I never understood the foot thing. Feet in general are disgusting.
JeezLouise Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 I don't really like some guys in sneakers for some reason, so I have asked someone to take his shoes off, telling him that he looks all cute and sexy barefooted. Are your shoes weird, by chance?
Star Gazer Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 I don't really like some guys in sneakers for some reason, so I have asked someone to take his shoes off, telling him that he looks all cute and sexy barefooted. Are your shoes weird, by chance? I was thinking the exact same thing!
Glenn Quagmire Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 Unless he's wearing spurred clogs or Ronald McDonald's I can't imagine a shoe THAT distracting. I think this chick is just a freak. Thank god she's not dating me. I wear rubber Adidas shower shoes everywhere so my feet smell like hot garbage.
SoulSearch_CO Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 Haha...foot fetish. Weird. But really, not the weirdest I've ever heard.
filh Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 I was thinking the exact same thing! you, sir, are very negative...
Bejita463 Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 you, sir, are very negative... Negative. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. .../cough. Anyway. What she agreed (which is not negative) with is a valid point (which also was not negative), even if it ends up being incorrect. I would just tell someone their shoes are ugly personally, but the theory is plausible.
filh Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 Negative. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. .../cough. Anyway. What she agreed (which is not negative) with is a valid point (which also was not negative), even if it ends up being incorrect. I would just tell someone their shoes are ugly personally, but the theory is plausible. Negative. this is only second time that I have used that word. *cough* *cough*.. sorry, damn that swine flu! I don't think her suggestion of OP's ugly shoes is a positive statement.. so relatively, it is a negative comment.
Author miketanner Posted May 16, 2009 Author Posted May 16, 2009 I don't really like some guys in sneakers for some reason, so I have asked someone to take his shoes off, telling him that he looks all cute and sexy barefooted. Are your shoes weird, by chance? Don't think it's the shoes. No matter what pair I'm wearing she just wants me out of them. She seemed to get a kick out of our trip to blockbuster to get a movie last weekend when I didn't have any shoes with me to wear. Not really fair that she got to wear shoes and I didn't . Oh well, if she gets off on it something that simple, it works for me. I think I've gone barefoot more in the past couple of months than I have in several years combined.
DarkestDreams Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 Are you actually saying you walk *outside* barefoot?
jayOG Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 Slight foot fetish, nothing wrong with that. I thinks its kinda cool.
Odyssey Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 yeah, its pretty harmless. Had a girl that always insisted that she sit on left side of the sofa when watching a dvd together, otherwise she'll starts fidgeting, which annoys me. Come to think of it, she always slept on the left side of the bed too, Mmm. Question: do left-handed people favor sleeping on the left?
carhill Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 Question: do left-handed people favor sleeping on the left? Never really thought about it but yeah I apparently have always slept on the left side of the bed, both when single and married. Just felt right. For the OP, nothing wrong feeding a fetish. Let those toes out for air. I enjoy women's feet, especially giving them massages. Then we get to try on shoes
Bejita463 Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 Question: do left-handed people favor sleeping on the left? I am left handed and I prefer to take the right side of the bed. Edit: Well, come to think of it, it is the left side as you LAY on it. It is the right side as you look at it though.
carhill Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 Yep, that was my thought as well. I identify left and right as when propped up on a pillow reading LS, not when looking at the bed from the footboard
Bejita463 Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 Yep, that was my thought as well. I identify left and right as when propped up on a pillow reading LS, not when looking at the bed from the footboard My stalker would think I was on the right side though.
carhill Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 I have this problem in concert venues....stage left, stage right, audience left, audience right. It's so confusing OP, while I haven't known any women with a foot fetish, I have met a few with a fetish for my bald head. They like to rub it for some reason, like maybe a genie will pop out or something
WhyYesThankYou Posted May 16, 2009 Posted May 16, 2009 Interesting... I think collectively, though, we're making a quick jump from the girl saying he looks "cute" barefoot to thinking there's an actual fetish here. It could be a fetish, but then it could be any of the other more "innocent" theories already listed. OP, does the barefootedness seem to have any connection to eroticism for her? Have you asked her any more pointed questions about her preference?
Author miketanner Posted May 16, 2009 Author Posted May 16, 2009 Are you actually saying you walk *outside* barefoot? Yes. Inside and outside.
Author miketanner Posted May 16, 2009 Author Posted May 16, 2009 Interesting... I think collectively, though, we're making a quick jump from the girl saying he looks "cute" barefoot to thinking there's an actual fetish here. It could be a fetish, but then it could be any of the other more "innocent" theories already listed. OP, does the barefootedness seem to have any connection to eroticism for her? Have you asked her any more pointed questions about her preference? I think the term fetish might be a little strong. Is it a turn on for her to see me in my bare feet? Sure. Is it the only way she gets turned on? No. I haven't asked much in the way of pointed questions other than asking her why she liked it, to which she said that it's a "cute look" for me. It's not something she insists on, just something she has a strong preference for. I think I might try something like I did last week when the quarter at school finished up soon. Since I'm taking the summer off, I'm going to stay a week or so at her place and not bring any shoes to see if this is something where the novelty will wear off for her. Something new for both of us since I don't I've ever gone barefoot for an entire week. But I'm getting used to doing it. I have to say that I've gone lots of places without a shirt and never thought twice about it but I almost felt naked going barefoot in public the first couple of times. In a way it's kind of fun because I feel like I'm getting away with something I'm not "supposed" to do
Author miketanner Posted May 16, 2009 Author Posted May 16, 2009 OP, while I haven't known any women with a foot fetish, I have met a few with a fetish for my bald head. They like to rub it for some reason, like maybe a genie will pop out or something Well, I'm not looking to shave my head so I'll take your work for it. Just make sure she's careful with her 3 wishes!
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