iBelieve In Symmetry Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 So I put the letter in an envelope, addressed it to her husband with a post-it note in there saying "tell your wife to leave me alone". Never heard from her again. Mission accomplished. LMAO! :lmao: F*cking AWESOME!
sunshinegirl Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 An update: I just found out that the ex will be at the same event as me tonight. I haven't replied to his letter yet. There will be a lot of people there that we both know so I will have plenty of people to talk to but I am so nervous!!! I won't bring up the past r but... Any words of encouragement would really help. Hi Rogue, how did last night go? I'm thinking of you and hoping it wasn't an upsetting experience in the end...
Author RogueAC Posted May 24, 2009 Author Posted May 24, 2009 Thanks for the encouragement cali. SSG thanks for thinking of me. Last night was so difficult. I'm still trying to wrap my head around it all. Nothing negative happened- everyone had fun and was excited to see me. I played my part and nobody could tell that I was hurting except for one or two close friends who were also there. It was like it used to be only I wasn't there with him. It hurt- hurts so much.
Author RogueAC Posted May 29, 2009 Author Posted May 29, 2009 Sorry for the dramatic last post. I saw the ex on Saturday night and it was nice and difficult all at the same time. Gosh. I decided to write him a letter in response. It took me a few weeks but I figured out what I needed to say (thanks for the feedback and help to a very special LS member ). I sent it last night so he'll probably get it Saturday. I am not sure if I am ready or want end my NC but it has become a safety blanket for me and I need to face this head on. Wish me well to keep moving forward! I feel relived to finally put a bit of closure on the past and the relationship, even if it is hard and I feel sad again. It is not heartbroken sad though and that feels kinda great.
Ronni_W Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 and that feels kinda great. Rogue, Congrats on throwing away that safety blanket and taking self-affirming action -- doesn't it feel good when you doing something for yourself that makes you feel GREAT? Sounds like you are indeed moving forward -- wishing you continued success!
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