Tryng2Trust08 Posted May 13, 2009 Posted May 13, 2009 Im ready to move on and leave him behind me, it's just very sad to me, I miss him soo much, but I had to end our friendship, I still have feelings for him and even though he was calling and texting me daily, I knew he didnt want to date me again. He even threw in my face that he didnt want to date me, which was hurtful all over again. Asking me about other guys I talk to, etc...it was getting overwhelming. I ended it right then and there, he doesnt want to date again, I cant be a friend to you and hear from you daily. I dont want you asking me what Im doing on the weekends when he had no intentions of asking me out. I have had such a hard time coping with this and I have no idea. I know this is the best decision, even if I wanted to call him, I couldnt, he blocked me, I just have to keep going in the right direction, forward. I had to vent!
EmperorR Posted May 13, 2009 Posted May 13, 2009 It's hard but for the best, i'll never date a friend again, my two closest friends in my life are now both my exes and I will never talk to them again sucks but such islife.
Author Tryng2Trust08 Posted May 13, 2009 Author Posted May 13, 2009 I guess Im wondering if I made the right decision...things between us for the last month were fine, it seemed like we could actually have a friendship. I feel like I did the wrong thing and its just bothering me
Truly Lost Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 I don't think you did the wrong thing. You aren't ready for him to be "just" your friend. You obviously still have feelings for him that stem deeper than a platonic friendship. Maybe in the back of your mind you thought being a friend to him would eventually win him back. You need time away to reflect on yourself and build a routine that doesn't involve him. You may miss him, but if he isn't around you, eventually you will get used to it. You don't need to know what he has been up to or who he has been dating or hanging out with. And he doesn't need to know those things about you. It only causes drama. Who needs that? Breaking up with someone is a huge change in your life. With time, things usually have a way of working themselves out for the better.
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