Woggle Posted May 13, 2009 Posted May 13, 2009 Everybody has some baggage and experience but some women just have to cause drama. You could be having the best time and something will set her off out of the blue that will make her cause a scene in public. Nothing you do will please them and the more you try to make them happy the more drama they cause. I think that every man who has dated has dealt with this kind of woman.
bac Posted May 13, 2009 Posted May 13, 2009 I have seen a guy who wanted the drama free thing. I believe i know for sure what it means. The men who state drama free approuch are players who are looking for 1-3 nights stands. But they do not tell the girls about that. In fact they tell them exact opposite things like 'you are the best, be my GF and staff like this'. This approuch produces a lot of drama because the girls will be falling for the guys instantly but the guys are going to vanish into thin air without any notice. So the girls will experience drama thinking of him and emailing to him and bothering him while he is already so busy with another girl. In fact he will say that he is very busy at work.
MN randomguy Posted May 14, 2009 Posted May 14, 2009 29 y/o male here, At 29 many of the women my age who are still single are so because they have been in crappy relationships with crappy men. They then, want to date a "nice guy" and treat him as though every man in the world is like her ex. no drama means, no kids, not hung up on the Ex, and not expecting the new guy to make up for the failings of other men in her life. You should be as willing to listen to his problems as he is to yours. Previous poster put it well when he talked about being used as an emotional punching bag. These guys don't want to be the consolation prize for women their own age. They want a woman who is younger, firmer and also doesn't have the emotional baggage, trust issues, etc. Some of these guys will mistreat the younger woman, some won't. Also, to some guys it means that you shouldn't have emotional needs and they're looking for someone to just be there for sex. So, Don't put too much into the profiles. If you get writing emails back and forth to a guy that might be somewhat indicative. The profile is just a marketing tool.
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