Nikki Sahagin Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 It's something i've been wondering about...since me and my ex broke up (granted its only been a week) he has told NO-ONE; not his parents, his friends, hasn't changed his facebook status. Anyone that knows I have told, for instance if they ask how we are doing, I say we are over. People need to know! Otherwise it becomes awkward. But I wonder why i'm the one everyones finding out from, including his own friends. Its like they speak to me before him. I wonder why he is not telling anyone when HE broke up with me :S
BCCA Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 I went through the same thing with my ex, she wouldnt tell anyone. To this day, from what I hear, all she says is 'it didnt work out'. Why is anyones guess, but my feeling is he doesnt want to take responsibility for it. He probably just wants to wait a while, and just say 'didnt work out' like my ex. What does it matter anyway? All that matters is that its over.
Author Nikki Sahagin Posted May 12, 2009 Author Posted May 12, 2009 I guess it doesn't matter. I just found it kind of odd, that they are the ones who broke up, but yet its us that are the ones 'explaining' it or letting people know.
Dan83 Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 My Ex did the same thing, she didn't tell anyone for a couple weeks. She even kept wearing the engagement ring (until I finally got it back) so she didn't have to tell her co-workers. I'm guessing she just didn't want to admit that she did wrong. But I have no clue what she finally told anyone she knows, her family, etc. I'm sure everything she did wrong was sugar coated. If only the world were filled with more decent honest people, so many of us wouldn't get hurt as badly.
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