TheKingKopite Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 Me and my ex who have been together for 2 years broke up 3 months ago because of me breaking up with her which I regret big time. Going through the "love pain" was one of the most painfullest expeirences I have ever had. We recently spoke and we both agreed to start "seeing eachother" and see how we get on which I was over the moon with. Now the big problem is when we are out we don't act like we are seeing eachother .. I don't want to make the moves and she aint ready yet but I don't know what to do. I am 17 and shes 16 but I do love this girl so please don't give me the "your too young" stuff please.
Soul Bear Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 you will never know unless you try...follow your heart and your gut 3 months is a long time. If you were going nc during that time, it is going to be HARDER for you to both connect again. Just my thoughts
Excellent Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 My guess is that there is still some tension between you two. You like her, but afraid to hurt her again. She likes you, but is afraid to get hurt by you, and probably is unsure about your intentions. I think you should let your shoulders drop, and SHOW her that you like spending time with her. Just chill and enjoy her company, take your time. Perhaps she will envetually do the same. You dumped her, so the ball is in your court now, show her trough actions and little words here and there that you are still fond of her, just don't push her.
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