Charlemagne Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 Hi everyone ! So here is my situation. There is a girl at my university, which I know very well for more than 3 years but since the beginning of new term I probably started to feel something more. We've got a nice contact, from time to time more intimate, but I feel she is a little bit reluctant. For example we have a great conversation, with a lot of subtext and then she doesnt respond for a week.. After a week everything is right, nice talk again and then bang, she run away one more time.. ! WTF ? She sent my a nice email on Saturday but I didn't reply. I don't want to play her games or whatever it is.. What do you think what should I do ? Any clues will be appreciated. Regards.
flash582 Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 Sounds like you may be a bit too interested. Try playing a little hard to get .... her interest will increase.
Author Charlemagne Posted May 12, 2009 Author Posted May 12, 2009 Yes.. you may be right. But personally I feel that I didn't give her too much interest. I was playing it cool, without hurry etc. Probably she is just not interested and just need my attention not me. It's a hard life.
JustLooking123 Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 Have you thought about...asking her out? She probably is wondering if you're interested, if you haven't made any sort of effort to take her out, etc.
Author Charlemagne Posted May 12, 2009 Author Posted May 12, 2009 Maybe she lost interest when I didn't take a serious leap and didn't convey my intentions after building comfort and attraction. I made an appointment with this girl but I had to postpone it becuase of my trip to France, then she lost interest, I get nervous about that and here we are. As I stated earlier she sent me a nice email on Saturday, so maybe it would be reasonable to reply and try to ask her out ?
Mahatma Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 maybe it would be reasonable to reply and try to ask her out ? nothin to lose.
tinklebell Posted May 13, 2009 Posted May 13, 2009 Hi everyone ! After a week everything is right, nice talk again and then bang, she run away one more time.. ! WTF ? Who made the contact "after a week?" In any case, ask her out already. When guys drag their feet in asking me out, I lose interest. And if they postpone without setting down a date or at least loosely mentioning when we would see each other after the reasons of the postponement, I may think they're politely blowing me off. So ask away.
Author Charlemagne Posted May 13, 2009 Author Posted May 13, 2009 We had a great conversation (IMO) and then she cut the contact and emailed me a week later without any word of explanation why she didn't respond for a week. I will attempt to rebuild the atmosphere and then ask her out immediately. Nothing to loose, a lot to gain. We will see.
tinklebell Posted May 13, 2009 Posted May 13, 2009 We had a great conversation (IMO) and then she cut the contact and emailed me a week later without any word of explanation why she didn't respond for a week. I will attempt to rebuild the atmosphere and then ask her out immediately. Nothing to loose, a lot to gain. We will see. Good attitude! I hope it works out for you.
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